I just don't know what to do...

[Ukazuto]

There is this one girl at my school, and well, I guess everyone knows the rest...
I'm too afraid to talk to her, and I don't know what to say.
Everytime I feel like I'm worthless compared to her or anyone else.
I want to let her know, but I don't want to just walk up and say something like that... I'd probably scare her or something...

Thanks to anyone who read this and or comment, I needed to say that...

 

[xSleepy]

im not sure what you should do either. have you talked to her before? You should just have small talk first and get to know her. just dont go up to her and say I LIKE YOU!!!! That might freak her out, lol

 

[Ukazuto]

Ya, I think that would freak anybody out...

But uh, no... I haven't said much of anything... I'm just in the shade again, watching time go by...

 

[IWouldPreferNotTo]

There is this one girl at my school, and well, I guess everyone knows the rest...
I'm too afraid to talk to her, and I don't know what to say.
Everytime I feel like I'm worthless compared to her or anyone else.
I want to let her know, but I don't want to just walk up and say something like that... I'd probably scare her or something...

Thanks to anyone who read this and or comment, I needed to say that...

If she's really cute and lots of guys want her, then I say move on. It's the most realistic thing to do. If not, then find someone who you know who knows her work you way in. You shouldn't really be taking advice from me, anyway since I find it difficult if not impossible to talk to a girl I'm attracted to.

 

[Ukazuto]

Well, I don't know about that... I mean, she isn't with the popular part of school much, but she's just brilliant and beutifull (at least, to me... but what do I know...) and everytime I think about that, I feel worthless and can't compare...

 

[Shakey]

Do you feel confident enough to smile at her? You don't even have to say anything, just smile.

Isn't it strange that inside we feel like it's so loud and all our thoughts are out to get us, but from her perspective, you're just a guy smiling at her. And you know what, who doesn't want to be smiled at?! She might even smile back!

Then once you're used to that, you could try just saying "hey". Small steps are the way to go with this

 

[Ukazuto]

I guess we will try smiling... But, I mean, I don't, arg, this is really difficult, I don't want to just smile if she looks in my direction, I have a problem with smiling in front of other people. It always feels so wierd...

 

[creep_x]

If she's really cute and lots of guys want her, then I say move on. It's the most realistic thing to do.

I don't mean to be rude IWPNT, but giving up without trying won't be a good idea; if u really like her, just go n talk to her.. try to meet her when shes alone so that u r free of SA when u talk with her...
Also if u think u r worthless, u will never get her... I read this somehere- "if you think you will lose, you have already lost"
Just talk to her, bump into her or find a mutual friend
Think of how much she means to you & you'll automatically figure out a way to talk to her...when theres a will, theres a way...

 

[IWouldPreferNotTo]

If she's really cute and lots of guys want her, then I say move on. It's the most realistic thing to do.

I don't mean to be rude IWPNT, but giving up without trying won't be a good idea; if u really like her, just go n talk to her.. try to meet her when shes alone so that u r free of SA when u talk with her...
Also if u think u r worthless, u will never get her... I read this somehere- "if you think you will lose, you have already lost"
Just talk to her, bump into her or find a mutual friend
Think of how much she means to you & you'll automatically figure out a way to talk to her...when theres a will, theres a way...

There's ALWAYS the "you should always try", but if she's well desired, he'd better hurry up and try and then move on. Otherwise, he's wasting his time dwelling on her if she's too intimidating to approach. I've wasted plenty of time dwelling on the unattainable.