I feel guilty

recluse

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Because yesterday one of my workmates who's in his 40's was wearing funny trousers which made his arse look big and he wore them really high, so I mimicked him by pulling my jeans up high. I feel guilty for making fun of him. I think I have a split personality.
 

Emma

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I'm guilty of the same thing....theres this guy at work who eats the same thing for lunch every single day, and I laughed at him when people made fun of him...even though I do the same thing as him, and I think its unfair the way he's treated....I feel guilty to
 

nesh

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It's what ppl do. I know it is hypocritical, having SA and making fun of other ppl. You feel like you are being judged and then you go and judge others, but that's what ppl do.

When I was at college there were a group of ppl I got on with and all they did was joke about other ppl and I would laugh with them, but it's just harmless fun. It's not like bullying, they weren't out to ruin or humiliate ppl publicly. I try to accept everyone for who they are. You can still have a laugh about them in an inoffensive, laughing with them sort of way.
 

recluse

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I know how it feels to be the butt of jokes so that's why I felt guilty afterwards because I know how it feels.
 
I'm also a hypocrite, and I judge others, but not directly. I do it in my head.

I pretty much am judgmental of any stranger I see. On the train or down the street; I think to myself "dear god that person needs plastic surgery/needs to lose weight/has acne/is too skinny/is old/looks like an asshole, which is the exact thing I wouldn't want people doing to me.

Maybe I'm doing it based on my own insecurities? I dunno
 

Thelema

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The world is a funny place. If you laugh at other people sooner or later they'll laugh at you. And if you aren't laughing at other people you're missing out! Its all in good FUN
 

Joey86

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Yup I'm guilty of that as well. But I think the difference between us and them is that we have some kind of regret for having done it. I'm sure there's some out there that don't feel that guilt.
 

recluse

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Joey86 said:
Yup I'm guilty of that as well. But I think the difference between us and them is that we have some kind of regret for having done it. I'm sure there's some out there that don't feel that guilt.

That's true!
 
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