I don't think I deserved this

[Brain Juice]

This may seem petty but please bear with me...

Well I was hurt online. Initially I was confused as to why she no longer had feelings for me so I asked her...unfortunately it developed into a drawn out argument in which she repeatedly accused me of being manipulative and guilt tripping her. I genuinely wasn't and I was trying to explain myself so she wouldnt think I'm a bad person but I made it worse. I eventually gave up and made an attempt to calmly conclude things to avoid further pain. At this point I'd let go and actually felt okay.

Then I woke up the next morning to discover she'd left me this huge nasty message. She still thought I was trying to make her feel bad and said she didn't want to talk anymore...and she'd blocked me. I only knew this girl online so it wasn't really a big deal to move on. But I've known her for years and she used to really like me so waking up to discover her block really hit hard. I don't know why she had to do that. She had the wrong idea and now she'll never know.

I know it's quite pathetic/sad really to get hurt online but I feel so unbearably guilty and worthless. The problem with social phobia is I have limited social interaction and so tend to fall prey to stupid online flings that always end painfully.

Any advice/similar stories would be much appreciated. (Sorry for long post)

 

[MikeyC]

Talking to someone online is difficult, and getting points across the way you mean them isn't easy, either. Sorry it happened but unfortunately there's not a great deal that can be done about it. Sounds like you'll just have to forget about her. ::

I've had fights/disagreements online, too, purely because I have typed things that I thought were okay in my mind but the message was lost and misconstrued.

 

[Srijita52]

Talking to someone online is difficult, and getting points across the way you mean them isn't easy, either. Sorry it happened but unfortunately there's not a great deal that can be done about it. Sounds like you'll just have to forget about her. ::

I've had fights/disagreements online, too, purely because I have typed things that I thought were okay in my mind but the message was lost and misconstrued.

Yeah it has happened to me a lot too. I agree that there isn't much that can be done now.

 

[montejocarlo]

Talking to someone online is difficult, and getting points across the way you mean them isn't easy, either. Sorry it happened but unfortunately there's not a great deal that can be done about it. Sounds like you'll just have to forget about her. ::

i have to agree with this.

I've had fights/disagreements online, too, purely because I have typed things that I thought were okay in my mind but the message was lost and misconstrued.

so have i... many times.