anomicdeer
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So, I have a son. Currently he is almost 2 years old. I am moving 3 hours away from his dad. My sons dad (I'll just say J), J, "wants" to notarize his calls and visits for my son. I don't think he really cares because he's saying that OTHER members of the family is "worried" about my son. The thing is, J has another son who isn't far away at all, in fact, J's parents adopted his own son and he doesn't even call or visit or have him come visit. He doesn't really seem to care about having a child at all and I know his family doesn't care what happens to me and they don't even talk to me. He is just trying to cause problems and look like a responsible, "caring father" yet they don't realize that he doesn't even talk to his other son who is only 5 mins away. J's son even visits his own mother and grandmother that is only about 5 mins away also. But J can't even call his parents to talk to his son or ask to see him.
I am NOT keeping my son away from anyone (which everyone would assume) but they are making it seem like it would be a problem. They rarely talk to each other and they don't come to visit or anything but the fact that I'm leaving they want to make me look horrible (like always) and assume I'm keeping my son away from them.
Do you think J is only doing this because everyone else is curious of the situation? I'm not asking should I let him visit so please don't say that I should. That is not the problem. Like I stated before. I just hate that I ever met him and because his family don't really know him (except the ones that adopted him and his own son) they think he's responsible and care when all he does is sit at the computer all day. I'm probably going to regret posting this because no one will probably not give me the opinion I want. I just want other people to realize how ****ed up J is, but I can't ever do that. He'll just make me look like another one of his horrible ex's when HE is really the problem.
I am NOT keeping my son away from anyone (which everyone would assume) but they are making it seem like it would be a problem. They rarely talk to each other and they don't come to visit or anything but the fact that I'm leaving they want to make me look horrible (like always) and assume I'm keeping my son away from them.
Do you think J is only doing this because everyone else is curious of the situation? I'm not asking should I let him visit so please don't say that I should. That is not the problem. Like I stated before. I just hate that I ever met him and because his family don't really know him (except the ones that adopted him and his own son) they think he's responsible and care when all he does is sit at the computer all day. I'm probably going to regret posting this because no one will probably not give me the opinion I want. I just want other people to realize how ****ed up J is, but I can't ever do that. He'll just make me look like another one of his horrible ex's when HE is really the problem.