Atlantis
Well-known member
I just posted here to tell I decided I don't have anxiety anymore. Thats not like a great decision that will change something, but since I also have to decide that I have SA, now I am turning back.
I admit things may be getting better, but I still have some hard time, and I still pass for some situations which indicates SA. The major reason is that I don't have a lot of time to waste on sobing, or identifying myself with some stupid random template. I need to change a lot in my life, and I don't have much time. You now, I'm 25 years now and in fact my birthday was yesterday. Maybe that made me realize something... or not. Whatever...
What is bothering me is that when you are shy in relationships, you sometimes decides for praticality instead of looking for what you want. I mean, you have to win something too, it does not should be like a extreme effort for you, if the results will not be great and marvelous in the end. It sucks when you suffer a lot and don't get what you expected.
So I will pay attention on this issue, and you people should pay attention on that too since you are usually shy or whatever.
Anyway thats probably the last time I am posting here, but I will look for replies. Good luck for you, and don't lose your standarts be worst the situation you are in, even if you think you will end up lonely, or if its is extremely difficult for you.
I admit things may be getting better, but I still have some hard time, and I still pass for some situations which indicates SA. The major reason is that I don't have a lot of time to waste on sobing, or identifying myself with some stupid random template. I need to change a lot in my life, and I don't have much time. You now, I'm 25 years now and in fact my birthday was yesterday. Maybe that made me realize something... or not. Whatever...
What is bothering me is that when you are shy in relationships, you sometimes decides for praticality instead of looking for what you want. I mean, you have to win something too, it does not should be like a extreme effort for you, if the results will not be great and marvelous in the end. It sucks when you suffer a lot and don't get what you expected.
So I will pay attention on this issue, and you people should pay attention on that too since you are usually shy or whatever.
Anyway thats probably the last time I am posting here, but I will look for replies. Good luck for you, and don't lose your standarts be worst the situation you are in, even if you think you will end up lonely, or if its is extremely difficult for you.
