I couldn't start my new job

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whycantibenormal

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I couldn't do it. I had all intentions of going in but couldn't make myself do it. I am so terrified of the hyperhidrosis and all the anxiety that I called and quit before I even started. :cry: I didn't really like this career anyway and wanted to get out. But now my husband says he's disappointed in me. :cry: I'll be lucky if he doesn't leave me. He just can't understand how debilitating this is. I have no self-esteem as it is but to have HH on top of it. The worst is that he's upset. Hurting him is the last thing I would want to do. I'm a failure who doesn't deserve to breathe.
 
qwerty103_2

qwerty103_2

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You're lucky at least you have a job. I couldn't even get a job because I'm worried about everything. I wish I can at least get a job. I dunno what to do in life. It sucks a lot.

Does your husband knows about your anxiety? If your husband can't understand you, I don't really see the point of staying in that relationship.
 
Lexmark

Lexmark

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Dont worry about it to much
Your just gonna have to put ya balls on the line and show up to the next one
I got a new job and i start 2morrow. Ill be shitting my pants.
The worst part is coz of SP i wont be able to talk to people and i have to spend all my time putting on a act. Its so energy draining but i can quit whenever I want and am going to stay there as long as I can.
 
ljwwriter

ljwwriter

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Don't feel alone. I've done this sort of thing a couple of times myself. And by a couple I actually mean about 4 times. I'd apply for the job, go in for the interview, begin filling out paperwork and take a drug test, and then never return to the job site. I'd assume that there are a few employers out there who despise me by now. But all we can do is keep trying and hope that we can make something stick eventually. It is so much easier said than done, though, isn't it?
 
krs2snow

krs2snow

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Hi whycantibenormal. Aww. Im sorry u didn't go to work. That's gotta be really hard working that closely w/people! (saw ur post about being a hairdresser) But, I think u should try calling your job back & tell the owner whats going on w/you. I bet they'd be understanding & would let you start a different day. Also, he/she could tell the other people there what's up & maybe you won't feel so much anxiety about it. Like not so much pressure. I bet if you corrected this situation you'd be really proud of yourself too!!
 
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whycantibenormal

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How doyou guys deal with having a resume with periods of unemployment and giving references and stuff like that? I'm finding that stuff hard now that I am applying to jobs again. Because I went to school for hair and worked for a year in the field and now I want to leave, I have taken that off my resume. Now I have a big gap to fill of unemployed time. I'm struggling here bad.
 
Fairy001

Fairy001

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Have you thought about couple counselling? Perhaps that would give you an opportunity to express how bad things are for you. Well done for trying, that is the main thing.


Peace xxx
 
bretters

bretters

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you could start with something damn right boring like data entry, ive found thats the one job in an office like setting which doesnt even require a cv.
Find out what your interested in first, you may in the end finding you want to go it.

i wish you luck.
 
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