I'm lucky, I guess, when I cut myself I didnt cut very deep, just enough that i bled a tiny bit. I used to burn myself in a area where clothes cover up all the time, so no one ever comments unless they see me naked. I still have those scars when I burnt myself with matches, that felt so good, but then I stopped after awhile because I started feeling less sad and less stressed out as I got older... Though they are still there I beleieve, havnt looked at them in awhile.