I am really happy for all of you who have jobs.

[EmO_tionAlChick]

I see that alot of u mention your jobs, and I have to admit that I am 23 and married and I dont have a job because of my SP...I know if I really put my head and focuse I can probably do it but only if I dont deal with alot of ppl then I think I can handle a job. I am vry scared for my future in case something was to happen to my parents or husband I wouldnt know what to do.

But once again I'm so happy for all of you who have jobs, keep up the good work!!

 

[hartbrokenvirgo]

Im happy for you girl, you have a husband!!! im terrfied of social contact with men lol

 

[Argamemnon]

I see that alot of u mention your jobs, and I have to admit that I am 23 and married and I dont have a job because of my SP...I know if I really put my head and focuse I can probably do it but only if I dont deal with alot of ppl then I think I can handle a job. I am vry scared for my future in case something was to happen to my parents or husband I wouldnt know what to do.

But once again I'm so happy for all of you who have jobs, keep up the good work!!

How did you marry, if you're so terrified of people?

 

[Riiya]

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[sabbath92003]

I get up at seven, yeah
And I go to work at nine
I got no time for livin'
Yes, I'm workin' all the time

It seems to me
I could live my life
A lot better than I think I am
I guess that's why they call me
They call me the workin' man

They call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am

I get home at five o'clock
And I take myself out a nice, cold beer
Always seem to be wondrin'
Why there's nothin' goin' down here

It seems to me
I could live my life
A lot better than I think I am
I guess that's why they call me
They call me the workin' man

They call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am

Well they call me the workin' man
I guess that's what I am

 

[EmO_tionAlChick]

I see that alot of u mention your jobs, and I have to admit that I am 23 and married and I dont have a job because of my SP...I know if I really put my head and focuse I can probably do it but only if I dont deal with alot of ppl then I think I can handle a job. I am vry scared for my future in case something was to happen to my parents or husband I wouldnt know what to do.

But once again I'm so happy for all of you who have jobs, keep up the good work!!

RE:How did you marry, if you're so terrified of people?

Well See Inever used to be like this until about 6 yrs. ago I got raped by a family member and a couple of months afterwards Imet my husband so when I met him I wasnt as severe as I am now. Now it's like I cant go nowhere, no bank,restaurnt, not even to my sisternlaws house, my grandma was in ICU and I ouldnt even visit her. So I thank God for my husband.

 

[EmO_tionAlChick]

How did you marry, if you're so terrified of people?

Haven't you heard? All girls have to do to get a husband is "look good."

Well See Inever used to be like this until about 6 yrs. ago I got raped by a family member and a couple of months afterwards Imet my husband so when I met him I wasnt as severe as I am now. Now it's like I cant go nowhere, no bank,restaurnt, not even to my sisternlaws house, my grandma was in ICU and I ouldnt even visit her. So I thank God for my husband.

 

[lettypagb]

happy for you ,i cant talk to the opposite sex sometimes not even to save my life.

 

[Ubersonic]

Going to job interviews is what scares me the most. Every interview I ever had was completely bombed by SA. I once feinted at an interview because the guy took me on a tour through the plant. The only reason I have the job I have now is because a person that worked there recommended me.

I almost quit at one point because they gave me a position that involved me going all around the plant. You had to ask strangers for help all day. I knew it was only going to be for a month so I figured out a way to adapt. I would wait until everybody went to lunch, then I would use their equipment real quick before they got back.

Also, at a Christmas party they were calling out names for prizes, you had to walk up and get the prize in front of 200 people. I was terrified of being called. My heart was pounding so hard I just went out to my car.

It's either that, or be utterly poor and get kicked out of the house because my stepdad will accuse me of freeloading.

 

[dzerklis]

looks like most SA females get married and reproduce but dont have jobs and most SA males dont reproduce but have jobs. conclusion is that SA females are those who spread SA genes and responsible for our suffering throughout ages. i hate females NOT lol i'm just stating facts here, although i know this thread is now probably gonna burn :roll:

 

[Ubersonic]

looks like most SA females get married and reproduce but dont have jobs and most SA males dont reproduce but have jobs. conclusion is that SA females are those who spread SA genes and responsible for our suffering throughout ages. i hate females NOT lol i'm just stating facts here, although i know this thread is now probably gonna burn :roll:

That is why I would never want children (not that I will have a wife ), I mean if its in my genes I don't want to spread it. But who knows if its really in our genes?

Even if it's not genetic they might still pick up on it. My dad didn't want kids and didn't like people. I witnessed very little social interactions as a kid compared to everybody else. This is how my shyness as a kid started. Thanks dad!

 

[unwantedoutcast]

looks like most SA females get married and reproduce but dont have jobs and most SA males dont reproduce but have jobs. conclusion is that SA females are those who spread SA genes and responsible for our suffering throughout ages. i hate females NOT lol i'm just stating facts here, although i know this thread is now probably gonna burn :roll:

That is why I would never want children (not that I will have a wife ), I mean if its in my genes I don't want to spread it. But who knows if its really in our genes?

Even if it's not genetic they might still pick up on it. My dad didn't want kids and didn't like people. I witnessed very little social interactions as a kid compared to everybody else. This is how my shyness as a kid started. Thanks dad!

yea, i would never want to bring another person into this god awful world, even if i knew they would not suffer from social phobia

 

[littl3misstrange]

i'm nearly 19 & never had a job, which my dad reminds me of daily.
i know i need to go out & get a job this year, especially because i need the money to visit a guy on this forum who i've developed a very close relationship with over the past few months.

but, it's so hard for me to go out & ask people for job applications. & if that's hard for me, i can't imagine how difficult a job would be.

 

[unwantedoutcast]

but, it's so hard for me to go out & ask people for job applications. & if that's hard for me, i can't imagine how difficult a job would be.

you could try to apply online. its what i do although i havent had any luck with it yet but its better than nothing i guess

 

[artsychick7]

How did you marry, if you're so terrified of people?

Haven't you heard? All girls have to do to get a husband is "look good."

Well See Inever used to be like this until about 6 yrs. ago I got raped by a family member and a couple of months afterwards Imet my husband so when I met him I wasnt as severe as I am now. Now it's like I cant go nowhere, no bank,restaurnt, not even to my sisternlaws house, my grandma was in ICU and I ouldnt even visit her. So I thank God for my husband.

I'm had it all my life, and I know what you feel, but..the more you don't face it the worse it gets, I'm TERRIFIED of talking to guys...or anybody for that matter, but since I'm still in school I'm forced to do presentations and such so I (even though I'm contantly afraid) have to confront the situations. I'm really sorry about the rape, thats terrible to be so hurt to change into and SP. Those I feel really bad about, being SP is aweful.

If you want, slowly work your way out of the box-not immedietly- like do the minor things that kinda get you nervous, then work your way up.

Glad you have a husband though-lucky! 8O just careful so that it doesn't get to severe

 

[nico82]

Well I had one til yesterday when I found out that I'd been laid off (like everyone else in my center). And I'd just started there a month ago, lol. They've given us until the end of March to continue working. So now I gotta get a new job or just move. Oddly enough I'm not freaking out yet. 8O