I Am Completely Useless

[Lost Girl]

Lonely guy, find your passion in life and do it. You're alive, act like it. And enough of that negative self-talk, be kind to yourself, be supportive, be loving, you're listening ya know.

 

[Kiwong]

You're an adult Lonely Guy, you are allowed to do what you want.

 

[Lea]

There are alternative ways of living, many have, many do. I'm sure there are even ways of living without money entirely *gasp* The thought...

Of course I thought of it too, like ecovillages for example. But I guess they accept only people who are skilled in something and positive mentally healthy etc., again the right types, not just mentally ill freeloaders.

Also, honestly the thought of that communal lifestlye, eating together, holding hands singing etc., seems more like a religious sect to me, not that it was bad but to me personally is not very appealing.
What I would like about it is if I learned practical skills like building from natural materials, how to fix things and survive in the nature.

 

[Annie13]

i think you just need to get a job and move out, your parents cant really control what you do with your life anymore, and why does it matter if you are a virgin? maybe you are saving yourself for the right one it doesnt mean you are some sad person because i think there are a few people older than you who are still saving themselves, you never know what your life will be like unless you try and move on by yourself and be more independent

 

[mikebird]

Who thinks "getting a job is so easy"?

More than a few factors there

A scale from volunteering by the theory of doing, supplying, effort without receiving anything back at all, including... food to eat. Very willing. This ended in being shown "the door.. the exit" of life. Goodbye. Should be carefully phrased.. as "bye"

Other end of the scale of 15 solid years of performing, learning, finding new skills to add, feeding my addiction to function, teach others, an assistant to Directors, Managers, CEO, CTO, COO, stakeholders... doing things which THEY CANNOT DO.

Not enough. Dismissed. All the years of success. Where was the switch? Psuedo-bullied by forever telephone calls, as I watch one now. Judgement of unsuitable. Here to help. Invited to start. :idontknow:

 

[sai]

I wish I was never born.

Really there is no point to me being here on this planet. My whole life is just other people telling me what to do and when to do it. If I speak up I am shouted down. I am 30 years old a virgin unemployed living at with my parents and grand mother. I am not allowed to do what I want. I get yelled out for not having a job or applying for them. An when I do apply I get yelled at for that too.

I have never had a girlfriend. But then again who would want to date a unemployed virgin living with his parents.

My parents have said I am not allowed to move out and that I should stay at home. All I feel like doing is sleeping and never getting up. I don't even know why I get up out of bed.

well i feel the same about dying... forget g-friend i never had a friend in my life time... i just never felt nice in my life time... this fu*king adhd & anxiety is really ****ing me... its not that no 1 likes me but i act akward .... hmmm... but i tell u 1 thing "DONT FU*KING DYE WITH OUT HAVING SEX GOD WILL SEND U TO HELL"....this is it... i will loose it as soon as possible... this 2013 should be the year we loose our f**KING virginity... doesnt matter who is it we are lossing to...... NO DEATH WITH OUT SEX !! :crying:

 

[SierraSage]

Lonelyguy1058...I am 38 and a woman..and I don't have any grandparents...other than those details you could almost be me.