I’m down on 1 knee Will you marry me?

[dave7352]

I’m far from new to this site. I’m so fed up with life. I feel so lonely, all I want is some 1 to love yet I have no1.
I’m 21 5,8 height average build, slightly chubby thighs, I’m not a stunner but I’m not bad at all.
Agree to marry me I will come and get you tomorrow we will get maayed and live happily eve after.

 

[Infected_Malignity]

Who needs the internet? I bet that if you really tried, you could find somebody... weather this thread was intended to be serious or not.

 

[dave7352]

Yep I bet your right, but come on I cant even look a shop cashier in the eye what chance have I got of getting some foolish women to marry or even love me?

 

[Chiaroscuro]

Because when you subtract the anxiety most of us are attractive people. That counts for you too! And that's not an empty compliment. I actually believe that.

Just don't narrow your sights to Jessica Alba or Scarlett Johansson :wink: - and it's probably not as hard as you think, just like most of our issues. It's all in the mind!

 

[dave7352]

Ye I know its all in the mind but what are we. But we are our mind if that’s fuxkd up, then what do we do?????
I’ve looked for that answer for tooooo long, I’m fed up of appreciating the simpler every day things. I’ll be really honest I’m not sure how much longer I can handle, I’ve consider the end ( if you know what I mean) too many times, that’s the only way I can see a way out of this paint theses days ~(after trying all I can fined).
The only thing left now is TALK therapy. May be if I can express my self to some 1 (if its only a therapist) it will ease the pain.

 

[chris420]

You're 21 man what do you want to get married for??

You don't wanna be desperate...try going to social events alone...something will probably happen eventually and you will get a lot of confidence doing this, so if nothing happens straight away it doesn't matter too much since you are gaining lifelong social skills...

Also meditation can help with feeling stronger in your own mind...you have to be happy&confident in yourself, a relationship is not magically going to solve your problems.

 

[gobbledegook]

8O

 

[dottie]

sounds like you want a mail order bride. klassy.

 

[**removed**]

I would marry you but check the sig

 

[miss_amy]

Choose really wisely. Marrying the wrong person is a trully terrible experience.. You are better off alone than with just anyone.

 

[Incognito]

I totally agree with miss_amy. I've seen people get married too quickly and with little thought and nine times out of ten they regret it.