Angel_Of_Death
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Whenever I have a crush on a girl, I become obsessed and then miserable. I would rather not have any crushes on any girls.
Last year in one of my classes in university, for the whole semester I did projects with this girl, and from the first moment I fell for her. Long story short, she kinda took advantage of me probably knowing I liked her, and maybe she sensed I was vulnerable in a certain way, I ended up doing most of the work on our projects, ended up lending her money I never got back...and eventually she stopped talking to me without giving any reasons. I don't really see her in school anymore as we're in different classes. In the end, I ended up being hurt. This girl through the 5-6 months I knew her, put me in such a miserable state you can't imagine. The miserable state I was in was because of myself, as I was obsessed with her and thinking about her 24/7, even tough I knew she had a boyfriend. Eventually I got over her and kinda moved on...
Until recently, at work, there is this new girl that started working and since her desk is right next to mine, I've been helping her alot on work related things, but this girl is so charming and beautiful that I'm getting the same type of feelings I had for the girl last year. I've been obsessing about her alot lately, and I want it to stop, but I can't help myself. I really don't want to end up feeling hurt, depressed and miserable all over again.
How exactly can I stop myself from liking a girl, or how do I stop obsessing over a girl ?
Last year in one of my classes in university, for the whole semester I did projects with this girl, and from the first moment I fell for her. Long story short, she kinda took advantage of me probably knowing I liked her, and maybe she sensed I was vulnerable in a certain way, I ended up doing most of the work on our projects, ended up lending her money I never got back...and eventually she stopped talking to me without giving any reasons. I don't really see her in school anymore as we're in different classes. In the end, I ended up being hurt. This girl through the 5-6 months I knew her, put me in such a miserable state you can't imagine. The miserable state I was in was because of myself, as I was obsessed with her and thinking about her 24/7, even tough I knew she had a boyfriend. Eventually I got over her and kinda moved on...
Until recently, at work, there is this new girl that started working and since her desk is right next to mine, I've been helping her alot on work related things, but this girl is so charming and beautiful that I'm getting the same type of feelings I had for the girl last year. I've been obsessing about her alot lately, and I want it to stop, but I can't help myself. I really don't want to end up feeling hurt, depressed and miserable all over again.
How exactly can I stop myself from liking a girl, or how do I stop obsessing over a girl ?