4myself
Well-known member
lately I have been thinking about why I am always putting myself down and talking about myself in a negative way in front of other people. In my own mind I am usually o.k, but when I get into a conversation with others I start to bag myself out. I realised that I am surrounded by a lot of people who are very negative towards me, (and others too) and I think thats why I run myself down, because I am so used to hearing other people say bad stuff to me that I automatically just play along. Anyway I dont want to do this anymore so I am distancing myself from people who are negative with me and I am wondering if anyone has any advice on how to handle these types of people?, especially the ones who pretend to be your friends and smile when they insult you, I really want to lose them!.