how do people with partners cope with meeting their partners friends and family?! you see I have a partner of 4 years who has no idea i have SA, and im finding it really difficult to cope with seeing his family( he has 3 brothers ) I have major panic attacts when I know they are visiting, they think im a real fucking freak, it tears me appart I love my partner so much we have two children aswell!, I think one day im just going to have a major breakdown, afterall SA is a pretty big thing to try and hide! does anyone else have this problem or is it just me?! :? :? :?