Hi,
I am just wondering does anyone can tell me, are there any courses or groups in Wellington region can help? I have realized I have this weird social communication problem, or maybe it's called Social Phobia. I have problem to talk to people in a party, group meeting, or company event. I don't know how to start a conversation;when people talk to me, I don't know how to carry on a conversation either. I have this problem to 'communicate' with others, and it does affect me quite a lot. For example, if I go to a party with my bf, full of strangers, I don't know what to do, I don't even know how to introduce myself. I don't know how to talk to others or jump into a conversation. It seems really easy for others to join a conversation but seems so hard for me. Also if I want to make a phone call to my bf, it always takes me a really long time to finally dial the number, mainly I didn't know what to say if it's not him answer the phone...or even if it's him, I still have problem to talk on the phone...I will get nervous...
I've realized it's a problem rather than shyness...sometimes I force myself to talk to others in a party, and it always ends up in a very 'awkward' situation...like 'silent' and then people find an excuse walk away.
I wonder does anyone else have same problem or it's just me? If you do, how do you cope with it, any help?
Thank you.
I am just wondering does anyone can tell me, are there any courses or groups in Wellington region can help? I have realized I have this weird social communication problem, or maybe it's called Social Phobia. I have problem to talk to people in a party, group meeting, or company event. I don't know how to start a conversation;when people talk to me, I don't know how to carry on a conversation either. I have this problem to 'communicate' with others, and it does affect me quite a lot. For example, if I go to a party with my bf, full of strangers, I don't know what to do, I don't even know how to introduce myself. I don't know how to talk to others or jump into a conversation. It seems really easy for others to join a conversation but seems so hard for me. Also if I want to make a phone call to my bf, it always takes me a really long time to finally dial the number, mainly I didn't know what to say if it's not him answer the phone...or even if it's him, I still have problem to talk on the phone...I will get nervous...
I've realized it's a problem rather than shyness...sometimes I force myself to talk to others in a party, and it always ends up in a very 'awkward' situation...like 'silent' and then people find an excuse walk away.
I wonder does anyone else have same problem or it's just me? If you do, how do you cope with it, any help?
Thank you.