incense
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I once read that people with avoidant personality disorder have very hesitant speech. It's due to being so focused on the other person and their reactions to what you're saying as well as over thinking what you're saying, etc.
I've discovered I speak very hesitantly to some people. I speak fine around my family, but when talking to others it comes out very choppy and incomplete and I really struggle to get words out at all. My speech just seems so hesitant!
I found this to be especially true when meeting an online friend for the first time. He spoke so quickly and clearly, but when it was my turn to speak everything was extremely slow and incomplete. I'm meeting up with him again and I'm worried I'll have a repeat performance.
Any advice? And can anyone relate?
I've discovered I speak very hesitantly to some people. I speak fine around my family, but when talking to others it comes out very choppy and incomplete and I really struggle to get words out at all. My speech just seems so hesitant!
I found this to be especially true when meeting an online friend for the first time. He spoke so quickly and clearly, but when it was my turn to speak everything was extremely slow and incomplete. I'm meeting up with him again and I'm worried I'll have a repeat performance.
Any advice? And can anyone relate?