How do you imagine,you are confident and normal?....when you only see a panicky,weirdo?.
Books will onlt tell you,what you should already know.I believe.
I know...LIFE IS ABOUT ACTING..socialising,it can help alot,to act....EVEN if you feel dumb inside,or feel down.
Stand tall,have your heartbeat at 2 paces...and just stay still.If you can do that...Without saying one word....It is a start.To feel proud of oneself.
I had an interview today,prob my first ever interview at 22.I had work,from relations before...Anyway,i sat there....with courage.I said a few sentences.IT MAY SEEM TO HIM:i don't talk...
But to me,i could sit face to face with a top general manager of a cinema,and listen to him.nod my head,not twitch...
I didn't mind,if i didn't talk at all,or talk little,when he asked questions.I barely talked.
It's all about,starting somewhere.
I had a girl,stare at me,like i was a bum,recently...The girl,who was my only ever girlfriend(we did nothing,at all).but i did it all to me>>>.worry,love,imagine...without DOING...because i was shy..
And when we met up again,as friends...I still loved her.When i was so dull(according to her),and she rolled those eyes.
I fell into a pit,for days again.
But is it about,getting a girl?who would do that to a social klutz,such as you or I?.
It's not..They don't deserve us.She couldn't even act as a friend,who cared.
I was mad one time,even on holidays 2 weeks ago...GO ALONE,into a nightclub,get laid for the first time..
It never happened,i didn't even talk to a girl,just one sentence..And i've never been out much.I don't have the courage to dance yet.
WRONG ENVIRONMENT!,WRONG JUDGEMENT OF MYSELF.
i shoul stay safe,and simple...but love myself..and build up the social SIDE,step by step...
Throwing yourself into some party house,isnt the way.or on top of girls.You'll only feel dumb.