xkate
New member
The short version:
I can’t seem to get comfortable around new people. While this isn’t odd for most people this may be:
- I can’t watch t.v. with people or just one person because anything remotely intimate, sexual, controversial. In extreme cases I can’t even see a t.v. commercial or cartoon. Things will make me so uncomfortable that I physically “jump”…or have this reaction like a ‘jolt’. It’s as if someone poked me or something.
- it's not just television but that seems to be the hardest thing to overcome. it can happen with normal conversation...and other social settings
- This kind of tension and anxiety is heightened with one on one interaction so much more. I feel very uncomfortable when someone (generally male) sits next to me…I can have the same kind of reaction as described before at any time.
- I don’t have any problems with sex or having sex. I was never abused or had a tragic event happen.
- a man can move his hand a certain way and it will make me want to jump up and leave the room.
I don’t understand.
This is embarrassing and it’s torture. I am so tired of making excuses to exclude myself from people I really want to get to know. I can’t control these “jolts” or discomfort.
Help. If you want to ask me a question about this go ahead, I’m looking for answer.
Btw. I’m on 20 mgs of lexapro for depression…the depression is fine but not this kind of social anxiety.
I can’t seem to get comfortable around new people. While this isn’t odd for most people this may be:
- I can’t watch t.v. with people or just one person because anything remotely intimate, sexual, controversial. In extreme cases I can’t even see a t.v. commercial or cartoon. Things will make me so uncomfortable that I physically “jump”…or have this reaction like a ‘jolt’. It’s as if someone poked me or something.
- it's not just television but that seems to be the hardest thing to overcome. it can happen with normal conversation...and other social settings
- This kind of tension and anxiety is heightened with one on one interaction so much more. I feel very uncomfortable when someone (generally male) sits next to me…I can have the same kind of reaction as described before at any time.
- I don’t have any problems with sex or having sex. I was never abused or had a tragic event happen.
- a man can move his hand a certain way and it will make me want to jump up and leave the room.
I don’t understand.
This is embarrassing and it’s torture. I am so tired of making excuses to exclude myself from people I really want to get to know. I can’t control these “jolts” or discomfort.
Help. If you want to ask me a question about this go ahead, I’m looking for answer.
Btw. I’m on 20 mgs of lexapro for depression…the depression is fine but not this kind of social anxiety.