popolala
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maybe its not you with the problem, its the people problem. Such as, maybe you are uncomfortable around certain people because they dont make you feel at ease, dont seem easy to talk to... and is un-approachable? but you are around another person because... of the type of personality they have? ... what do you think?
i know i am not comfortable around people who giggle about absoulutly everything, because i cannot fake a giggle.. i sounds really fake. So i dont like to be around people like that, as i feel nervous because im going to have to fake a giggle, or they think im upset or somethings wrong. When i just dont think its something to giggle at.
i just cannot fake a giggle, because its so not natural, im so un-womanly..
i am like a guy, i dont understand womans..
i was having lunch with my work colleague, (2 girl, and 1 of the girl boyfriend (colleague too) and those 2 girls were giggling about things that so un-giggleble. such as, i got 250 points on my boots advantage card, heh heh hehe... while they giggling, im just smiling and her boyfriend has a blank face, eating his lunch..they still giggling about things thats not giggleble. and i am having same expression as her boyfriend, having a normal face.. and then i just giggle (but sounds fake)
okay, lunch over.. back in office..
my work colleague then message me later.. and ask if i was feeling awkward, and that they liked having lunch with me, and if you dont want to have lunch with us, you dont have to, she dont want me to feel un-comfortable. she want us all to feel comfortable and laugh, and talk about anything.
(this girl who message me, i normally talk to 121... but this new colleague join in, and i dont really feel comfortable around her) .. the girl who message me told me, Sally thinks your a sweet girl, and she asked if you are scared of her? ... i said, no.
Anyways, i just feel really uncomfortable around people who giggle at things that i dont understand. Im just exactly like a guy. and i feel like i have to do the same. What if i did had a blank face? .. is that okay? ... because that is actually my feel facial expression.
im not comfortable hanging around with guys though, I prefer hanging with girls. The only person who i can genuinily giggle at are a few people.
i know i am not comfortable around people who giggle about absoulutly everything, because i cannot fake a giggle.. i sounds really fake. So i dont like to be around people like that, as i feel nervous because im going to have to fake a giggle, or they think im upset or somethings wrong. When i just dont think its something to giggle at.
i just cannot fake a giggle, because its so not natural, im so un-womanly..
i am like a guy, i dont understand womans..
i was having lunch with my work colleague, (2 girl, and 1 of the girl boyfriend (colleague too) and those 2 girls were giggling about things that so un-giggleble. such as, i got 250 points on my boots advantage card, heh heh hehe... while they giggling, im just smiling and her boyfriend has a blank face, eating his lunch..they still giggling about things thats not giggleble. and i am having same expression as her boyfriend, having a normal face.. and then i just giggle (but sounds fake)
okay, lunch over.. back in office..
my work colleague then message me later.. and ask if i was feeling awkward, and that they liked having lunch with me, and if you dont want to have lunch with us, you dont have to, she dont want me to feel un-comfortable. she want us all to feel comfortable and laugh, and talk about anything.
(this girl who message me, i normally talk to 121... but this new colleague join in, and i dont really feel comfortable around her) .. the girl who message me told me, Sally thinks your a sweet girl, and she asked if you are scared of her? ... i said, no.
Anyways, i just feel really uncomfortable around people who giggle at things that i dont understand. Im just exactly like a guy. and i feel like i have to do the same. What if i did had a blank face? .. is that okay? ... because that is actually my feel facial expression.
im not comfortable hanging around with guys though, I prefer hanging with girls. The only person who i can genuinily giggle at are a few people.
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