flopsy
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hi everyone,
i'm the GF of an SP sufferer and he's extremely wary of people (more so when he's tired or stressed). He is also paranoid about anyone knowing about him or his life and generally doesn't like people on sight - even if he has never met them. I'm the opposite - people have to really piss me off before i'll write them off, i generally try to assume most people are nice/mean well to start with.
thing i'd love to know is whether other SP sufferers think this is a common feeling - being wary or even hating people you don't know - or if it's just a personal trait my BF has. i was thinking maybe it was some kind of defence against wanting to actually meet people in the first place, maybe?
sorry if it sounds like a dumb question!
flopsy
i'm the GF of an SP sufferer and he's extremely wary of people (more so when he's tired or stressed). He is also paranoid about anyone knowing about him or his life and generally doesn't like people on sight - even if he has never met them. I'm the opposite - people have to really piss me off before i'll write them off, i generally try to assume most people are nice/mean well to start with.
thing i'd love to know is whether other SP sufferers think this is a common feeling - being wary or even hating people you don't know - or if it's just a personal trait my BF has. i was thinking maybe it was some kind of defence against wanting to actually meet people in the first place, maybe?
sorry if it sounds like a dumb question!
flopsy