Hating everybody....
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Richey
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I know exactly what your saying, i live in a house of loud egotistic Loonies! and parents who only nag! and can never lighten up so ive been known to detest the human race every so often :lol:
its interesting though because when im away from home(family) i feel better about myself because i can rely on myself and i dont have people breathing down my neck all the time, for instance mum just walked in the room and says "you better be studying", then she walked to over to my bed and fixes a minor crease in the bed sheets and says to me "why is your room always pig stye" when its clearly not that messy with a few books on the floor...thats all, its not messy....i then walked out to the kitchen and got flamed for leaving a butterknife on the right hand side of the sink instead of the left hand side before being hit with a one hour lecture on how i will never succeed in life unless i keep things neat and tidy and if i fail this course then my life will be over....
I also went to Uni today and half of my group didnt contribute at all to the group assignment so i ended up hastily writing up a (rushed)conclusion before it was time to hand it in because half the group did nothing.
so right now i despise people :lol: honestly its mostly my family that get on my nerves, we just dont get along and perhaps its the stigma of living with each other for so long and having senile~conservative parents to contest with every day.....
its interesting though because when im away from home(family) i feel better about myself because i can rely on myself and i dont have people breathing down my neck all the time, for instance mum just walked in the room and says "you better be studying", then she walked to over to my bed and fixes a minor crease in the bed sheets and says to me "why is your room always pig stye" when its clearly not that messy with a few books on the floor...thats all, its not messy....i then walked out to the kitchen and got flamed for leaving a butterknife on the right hand side of the sink instead of the left hand side before being hit with a one hour lecture on how i will never succeed in life unless i keep things neat and tidy and if i fail this course then my life will be over....
I also went to Uni today and half of my group didnt contribute at all to the group assignment so i ended up hastily writing up a (rushed)conclusion before it was time to hand it in because half the group did nothing.
so right now i despise people :lol: honestly its mostly my family that get on my nerves, we just dont get along and perhaps its the stigma of living with each other for so long and having senile~conservative parents to contest with every day.....
Faded
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aliasgirl said:
Aliasgirl, Dont worrry,, i feel the same,and i hate it tht i feeel like i hate everyone ( cuz i think its not something pleasant ) .. And yea i do feel that others are two-faced trying so hard to adapt with my situation and always faking that sympathy.. its sickening me. I dont feel real and i get totally frustrated that i cant do anything about it. I just hope one day i wont go from passive to aggressive ( cuz i always wonder if i can kill those ppl i had bad experience with and those that dont understand wat im goin thru .. Sometimes i plan and think about it alott ) ... Im glad that im not the only one with hate issues ect.,,, its not healthy though.
Sometimes i dont understand why i kinda hate others, i think its becuz i dont find the right feelings towards them .. or maybe know excatly what to feel. its Reallly confusing ..
BrokenSmile
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Oh ya, I hate people too and it seems to be a reciprocal feeling. I hate they, they hate me and we will gonna live happy to the end of our lifes. :roll:
LittleMissScareAll
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I feel that way alot...I've felt like I hate everybody (except my parents) lots of times....
jayfan
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no actually far from it , well almost the exact opposite . i have alot of love for everyone , even though nobody really likes me . i mean i get upset at my family and friends at times obviously but i dont really feel like i hate everybody . my parents donr really nag or pressure me , my brothers and sisters dont bother me , actually they always try to help me and never put me down.
Sometimes I also feel like I detest the majority of people, even complete strangers. I happen sometimes to overhear a conversation between two people and feel incredibly hostile to them just because maybe they are saying something I don't agree with. It takes me an effort to calm down sometimes, and it's so stupid.
On the other hand, I can feel everlasting friendship and gratitude for people who were just correct and nice with me for a few times. There are some people I haven't seen for years, they probably barely rememeber that I exist, and still I do think of them and truly hope that things go well for them.
On the other hand, I can feel everlasting friendship and gratitude for people who were just correct and nice with me for a few times. There are some people I haven't seen for years, they probably barely rememeber that I exist, and still I do think of them and truly hope that things go well for them.
iamantisocial
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aliasgirl said:
I... HATE... EVERYONE!!! I... HATE... EVERYTHING!!! IM JUST A PSYCHO!!! BWAAAWWWWWW!!!!!
I think that was Slipknot or Chimaira... not sure...
Septor
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I don't hate anyone.At most,there people I dislike but sometime when I feel really bad I can be like that but it passes.
There no point it hating people because in the end it will just eat you up on the inside and you will pay for it but it's perfectly understandable to have those feeling.There's a lot of bad people out there. :evil:
There no point it hating people because in the end it will just eat you up on the inside and you will pay for it but it's perfectly understandable to have those feeling.There's a lot of bad people out there. :evil:
Indecisive
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LittleMissScareAll said:
For me it's my parents who I feel the most uncomfortable around.
Because I'm not working I feel like a loser and I'm living at home for free. I do try to help around the house, yard work taking care of my grandmother stuff like that but it still doesn't feel great. Since I'm not comfortable around people I don't make many friends, and the aquinatences I do hang around I don't really tell much about myself because I feel there isn't much to tell. I just feel out of place talking to other people, guess I tend to listen more cuz when I do open up things just flood out in a big rant and complaint....kind of like right now :lol:
Jack-B
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All,
The reason we dislike so many people is because we see them as a cause of our mental anxiety and negative feelings within in our mind.
This is quite normal for social phobics because, obviously, our anxiety heightens when around others or in the company of others.
I work with a woman at work who has a social phobia, she appears fine to many but i know how she really feels because she has told me. Yet, the other day i still managed to get annoyed with her, why? Because i forgot that she, like many others dont look like they are in pain but are in fact struggling through their lives just like the rest of us.
It was then i realized that it was pointless to feel angry inside because it was only doing me harm, i was creating monsters out of everyone when really they were dealing with their own unpleasant thoughts and feelings.
Everyone is dealing with their own anxiety and mental pain, we dont see it because we are so wrapped up in ours. Its only when we step out of our own universe and realize others feel like that which makes our suffering seem insignificant and more bareable, they dont seem like such monsters anymore. They become closer to us, more equal.
Jack
The reason we dislike so many people is because we see them as a cause of our mental anxiety and negative feelings within in our mind.
This is quite normal for social phobics because, obviously, our anxiety heightens when around others or in the company of others.
I work with a woman at work who has a social phobia, she appears fine to many but i know how she really feels because she has told me. Yet, the other day i still managed to get annoyed with her, why? Because i forgot that she, like many others dont look like they are in pain but are in fact struggling through their lives just like the rest of us.
It was then i realized that it was pointless to feel angry inside because it was only doing me harm, i was creating monsters out of everyone when really they were dealing with their own unpleasant thoughts and feelings.
Everyone is dealing with their own anxiety and mental pain, we dont see it because we are so wrapped up in ours. Its only when we step out of our own universe and realize others feel like that which makes our suffering seem insignificant and more bareable, they dont seem like such monsters anymore. They become closer to us, more equal.
Jack
Faded
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aliasgirl said:
Oh yeaa, Depsite the hate, i do feel the problem is my mine and my own. Thinking about it, its like im the meanest person in the world. Yeaa i do want others to understand .. and to be less selfish .. blah blah .. i wont stop complaining about it,AWFUL!!
,, aliasgirl thank u 4 pointing that out. :!:bajksdkjhaskdjaksdkjwwd
yea i get that sometimes too and it's such a peculiar feeling.
just a bad comment someone makes and you feel hostile towards them.
and along come some normal chap from the streets doing a simple nice thing and you feel extreme gratitude towards them, which is a good thing - but in the world we live in, it can sometimes and usually seem like a suck-up character or being overly nice.
i don't know.
like you said it's just so stupid sometimes..
Quixote said:
yea i get that sometimes too and it's such a peculiar feeling.
just a bad comment someone makes and you feel hostile towards them.
and along come some normal chap from the streets doing a simple nice thing and you feel extreme gratitude towards them, which is a good thing - but in the world we live in, it can sometimes and usually seem like a suck-up character or being overly nice.
i don't know.
like you said it's just so stupid sometimes..