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Has anyone rejected someone they liked?

Started by Dronee · Aug 22, 2010 · 30 replies

#21
I've rejected people because I thought I could do better. Beggars can be choosers.
#22
A couple of times. Don't get that many offers now that I don't go to bars, though...
#23
Dronee said: ↑
why though? (if you don't mind..)

I don't think I'm good enough for anyone.

I really shouldn't exist to be honest.
#24
I've never bluntly rejected someone, but I deliberately keep people from getting too close. I carry baggage (other then social phobia) I'd rather not get people involved in.
#25
I've never outright rejected anyone, but a couple of times in the past I've not acted when the signals appeared to clearly be there. Always for stupid shallow reasons too. :🙁:
#26
No, because I've never had people that I like give me the opportunity to reject them. I don't initiate with people, and they rarely initiate with me. When they have been the initiators, it ends when they reject/ignore me.
#27
lurknomore said: ↑
No, because I've never had people that I like give me the opportunity to reject them. I don't initiate with people, and they rarely initiate with me. When they have been the initiators, it ends when they reject/ignore me.

oh really ... wot never 😕 i find that hard to belive 😀
#28
But when you've rejected the girl you like, do you still stare at them and think about them..stay around them to be close..but not talk, trying t keep the ''connection'' going so she won't go away for good????
#29
TooShyShy said: ↑
But when you've rejected the girl you like, do you still stare at them and think about them..stay around them to be close..but not talk, trying t keep the ''connection'' going so she won't go away for good????

Guilty as charged. I push romantic interests away all the time. Here is the real kicker... I'll push someone away and then stare and my phone/check email in hopes that they will try to reconcile somehow. Talk about damaged goods :😛:
#30
Spike Lee said: ↑
I don't think I'm good enough for anyone.

I really shouldn't exist to be honest.

I feel the same way. I would be surprised to find out if anyone liked me. I don't like me so I wouldn't want to be with anyone who does, or put them through the misery of finding out how hopeless I really am.
#31
most of the time i rejected because i felt i wasnt good enough :🙁:
but i usually avoid anyone i fancy tbh D:

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