Hey im 27 Years old! I guess ill tell my story! Perhaps it will help someone!
I developed extreme social phobia at a very early age! I'm not sure when exactly! I remember in school i started getting bullied because i wouldn't talk to anyone. I have lots of sad memories actually!
I remember riding my bike around outside my house one day when i was young and some people came up and asked me how old i was, i wouldn't say so they started throwing rocks at me.
Anyway i don't want to go through them all but there was alot of that happening. People told me i should kill myself, people told me if they ever saw me out they would stab me or throw glass bottles at me.
So i become very scared of people and locked myself away from society for a very long time.....
After seeing everyone around me starting to find love, get married and all that it started making me feel even more lonely so i decided it was time to kill myself, but every time i went to kill myself i told myself i might as well push myself and see what happens and if i can't take it i can kill myself then.
I couldn't talk to anyone about it so i studied body language, social skills, psychology and NLP. I forced myself to look people in the eyes as i walked past them. I forced myself to be the first person to say hello to the workers at the shops. I forced myself to walk straight. I forced myself to talk to people no matter what.
It was very hard a lot of the time i would run away and cry cause i would start shaking and they would get uncomfortable. I invited alot of people out and no one ever came! They always said no. No one gave me a chance. I managed to get a date with one chick and she called me a freak! I must admit though i came along way.
There are some people i like that i really want to get to know but because of my sad they always end up pushing me away!
Anyway in the end i decided to **** them all! I stopped trying i spent years trying! And still not one person has invited me out! Now i work 50 hours a week at a very physical demanding job! and then i goto the gym and work out more! Its like insanely hard for someone to work out this much! I just use my pain to keep pushing me! Some nights i will only get one hour sleep cause i will start getting depressed and sad!
I feel like i have to keep active all the time or i will start getting depressed so yeah basically my life is just working and gym! On weekends no one invites me out and i don't want to sit at home and get depressed so i goto the gym, even though im already very sore from the week.
It's very hard on me! Seeing people i like pushing me away cause i get nervous or for whatever other reason! Its hard but its my life and i want to make it better! Some nights it gets so hard i just cry for hours! But in the end its my life and i will keep pushing until i find what i want or die trying! I won't give up on myself no matter what!
I developed extreme social phobia at a very early age! I'm not sure when exactly! I remember in school i started getting bullied because i wouldn't talk to anyone. I have lots of sad memories actually!
I remember riding my bike around outside my house one day when i was young and some people came up and asked me how old i was, i wouldn't say so they started throwing rocks at me.
Anyway i don't want to go through them all but there was alot of that happening. People told me i should kill myself, people told me if they ever saw me out they would stab me or throw glass bottles at me.
So i become very scared of people and locked myself away from society for a very long time.....
After seeing everyone around me starting to find love, get married and all that it started making me feel even more lonely so i decided it was time to kill myself, but every time i went to kill myself i told myself i might as well push myself and see what happens and if i can't take it i can kill myself then.
I couldn't talk to anyone about it so i studied body language, social skills, psychology and NLP. I forced myself to look people in the eyes as i walked past them. I forced myself to be the first person to say hello to the workers at the shops. I forced myself to walk straight. I forced myself to talk to people no matter what.
It was very hard a lot of the time i would run away and cry cause i would start shaking and they would get uncomfortable. I invited alot of people out and no one ever came! They always said no. No one gave me a chance. I managed to get a date with one chick and she called me a freak! I must admit though i came along way.
There are some people i like that i really want to get to know but because of my sad they always end up pushing me away!
Anyway in the end i decided to **** them all! I stopped trying i spent years trying! And still not one person has invited me out! Now i work 50 hours a week at a very physical demanding job! and then i goto the gym and work out more! Its like insanely hard for someone to work out this much! I just use my pain to keep pushing me! Some nights i will only get one hour sleep cause i will start getting depressed and sad!
I feel like i have to keep active all the time or i will start getting depressed so yeah basically my life is just working and gym! On weekends no one invites me out and i don't want to sit at home and get depressed so i goto the gym, even though im already very sore from the week.
It's very hard on me! Seeing people i like pushing me away cause i get nervous or for whatever other reason! Its hard but its my life and i want to make it better! Some nights it gets so hard i just cry for hours! But in the end its my life and i will keep pushing until i find what i want or die trying! I won't give up on myself no matter what!