gggrrrr!

[Lotrsfan]

gggrrrrr! this is so annoying!
Ok, my sister has just had her friend round and my dad just had to take them both to a fencing club. and when he came back, my mum was saying how my sister hadn't introduce this new girl to her etc etc. and i said she didn't even introduce me to her either, and my dad said "Well you wouldn't talk to her even if she did anyway!" gggrrrr it's so annoying when he keeps bringing my social phobia up! i did say back "But at least i would've said hi though."

 

[Richey]

My parents are the same, they see me as a burden that should have been this popular outgoing person, my mum threatened me yeterday to start having a social life or else, everytime she talks to me she threatens me about it, because when she's with her work pals she seems to talk me down alot, so as worrydoll said you dont have to become your parents, i wouldn't call my parents friends, just people who are there but i only love them as family they have never show affection or sympathy towards me, my dad is always angry and never listens to me, so try not to let them get you down, they can make things worse and there are good people out there who will listen and understand yoursituation.

 

[jayfan]

wow . thats really sad - i dont know what i'd do if my folks were that judgemental and sarcastic about my sa . im just glad my folks and family are very supporting and never bring up my sa. they just say "im quiet or very serious"

 

[the_secret_me]

yeah my mum was like that when i had no freinds.
she would always say "why dont you go do something with your freinds? do you have any freinds?". i would usually make up some excuse or something. she could be a real bitch about it.
ive never told her anything about my sa... of course she notices i have issues...but instead of getting me help she expects me to suddenly just make myself normal. as if its my fault and im just being pathetic and antisocial on purpose.

 

[Gloomy]

Sounds like something my dad would say.

 

[june]

I understand how you feel, my older brother and sister would say in front of people I just met, "she's just shy, that's why she's not talkative" I felt like it totally invalidated anything I would have said.

 

[emre2801]

anti?

yeah my mum was like that when i had no freinds.
she would always say "why dont you go do something with your freinds? do you have any freinds?". i would usually make up some excuse or something. she could be a real bitch about it.
ive never told her anything about my sa... of course she notices i have issues...but instead of getting me help she expects me to suddenly just make myself normal. as if its my fault and im just being pathetic and antisocial on purpose.

are you antisocial or asocial? antisocial is different thing.

 

[Y]

Re: anti?

yeah my mum was like that when i had no freinds.
she would always say "why dont you go do something with your freinds? do you have any freinds?". i would usually make up some excuse or something. she could be a real bitch about it.
ive never told her anything about my sa... of course she notices i have issues...but instead of getting me help she expects me to suddenly just make myself normal. as if its my fault and im just being pathetic and antisocial on purpose.

are you antisocial or asocial? antisocial is different thing.

I dont think she ll answer you, considering this topic is 1 years old

But she probably meant asocial

Merhaba bu arada

 

[steel_sparks]

i seem to be a lucky one in this sort of situation my parents i can talk to and they are never on my case about friendsor anything, and i can tell my sister absolutely anything and she's understand, she is the loud one of the family but she is very understanding. i only seem to have a porblem with people that i havent known for more than a few years.

 

[emre2801]

Re: anti?

yeah my mum was like that when i had no freinds.
she would always say "why dont you go do something with your freinds? do you have any freinds?". i would usually make up some excuse or something. she could be a real bitch about it.
ive never told her anything about my sa... of course she notices i have issues...but instead of getting me help she expects me to suddenly just make myself normal. as if its my fault and im just being pathetic and antisocial on purpose.

are you antisocial or asocial? antisocial is different thing.

I dont think she ll answer you, considering this topic is 1 years old

But she probably meant asocial

Merhaba bu arada

Merhaba. Burada çok az Türk var sanırım. . Türkiye den katılım için bir bölüm olsaymış iyi olacakmış.(Amerika,Kanada...) neyse.
Zaten biliyorsun Türkiye de de bir site var www.sosyal-fobi.net. İngilizce mizi geliştirmemiz bakımından da iyi bir yer aslında.