Getting through heartbreak

[Steve23]

Does anyone have any advice for getting through heartbreak? I feel pretty devastated right now...my first relationship and I feel so depressed, lost and numb inside. I don't really know what I'm looking for...support or advice. Just something to make the pain and numbness go away.

Much appreciated.

 

[just wanna b normal]

hmmm forgive & forget & move on find someone else...listen to music!

 

[Spike Lee]

time is the only solution.

we can't help you unfortunately.

hate to be so straight forward but its true.

 

[Steve23]

Thank you for being frank Spike. I think I do realize it is something I need to get over on my own. It just hurts so much.

 

[Spike Lee]

yup, it truly sucks.......


you either learn to deal with it, cause it may happen again in the future

or

just avoid it all together, so you never have to feel this type of pain again.


either way, the answer is time....

 

[just wanna b normal]

iv been there really...i had my heart broken b4! & i think if i had someone right now i wouldve been got over it but SA along with not having a job is stopping me from moving on! & yes it hurt like hell! heres some some wise words from a wise person, "Life is thickly sown with thorns, and I know no other remedy than to pass quickly through them. The longer we dwell on our misfortunes, the greater is their power to harm us."
voltaire

so basically dont dwell on it!

 

[KiaKaha]

I have to agree with spike. Been there myself over three years and I can still feel a pang. It might be hard to believe right now but it does get better, just ride it out. Be kind to yourself, make a ton of threads and vent if you need to. It gets easier. Hang in there.

 

[lunarla]

YouTube - The Beatles - Let It Be

I dunno man, I dunno.

 

[kihira]

Time - distract with activity - write or talk it out