Fredscars
Well-known member
Right..
I have my ex bf..we both agreed that we'd remain good friends once we broke up..and we are sort of..apart from we keep arguing.
Now hes holding a party, to which i was invited..months ago. Im not normally a party person, but i know all the people there and ive been steeling myself up to it for ages and im actually really looking forward to it.
Now i get back off holiday on tuesday and text him for details - times etc. In reply i get an email saying that he doesnt want me coming. he got together with a girl on holiday (which im fine about) and hes worried that im going to make a move on him (completely ignoring that fact that i broke up with him). He also reckons he 'needs more time' and thinks bieng thrown together in a partty situation isnt a good idea, but that we can still be good friends afterwards.
Now im normally very level headed and rarely get so angry that i cant think. This time however..argh, it had me shaking with fury. I guess i really wanted to go the party :roll:
Anyway, i sent him an email back telling him in not so polite words that bascially i go to the party or he can have our 'friendship' shoved up his arse, where it can join his head.
Now i accept i was probably a bit rash in my decision to send this email..
but do you think it was totally unwarrented? Did i behave badly?
I have my ex bf..we both agreed that we'd remain good friends once we broke up..and we are sort of..apart from we keep arguing.
Now hes holding a party, to which i was invited..months ago. Im not normally a party person, but i know all the people there and ive been steeling myself up to it for ages and im actually really looking forward to it.
Now i get back off holiday on tuesday and text him for details - times etc. In reply i get an email saying that he doesnt want me coming. he got together with a girl on holiday (which im fine about) and hes worried that im going to make a move on him (completely ignoring that fact that i broke up with him). He also reckons he 'needs more time' and thinks bieng thrown together in a partty situation isnt a good idea, but that we can still be good friends afterwards.
Now im normally very level headed and rarely get so angry that i cant think. This time however..argh, it had me shaking with fury. I guess i really wanted to go the party :roll:
Anyway, i sent him an email back telling him in not so polite words that bascially i go to the party or he can have our 'friendship' shoved up his arse, where it can join his head.
Now i accept i was probably a bit rash in my decision to send this email..
but do you think it was totally unwarrented? Did i behave badly?