Friend issue.. advice needed?

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Emerald1

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I need to vent.. I'm not an immature person but I do realize that this story sounds very "high school" like. Please try to emphasize instead of judge. I'm just looking for some advice.

I have a friend who goes after any guy that I say that I am interested in...

I mentioned that I thought this one guy was cute and she quickly started flirting with him and formed somewhat of a relationship.. I am fine with that, but now two weeks later I have told her that I have a crush on this other guy and now she has started flirting with him and trying to get him to notice her (while maintaining her relationship with the first guy). This is the second time shes done this.. the first time she actually broke up with her boy friend of one year to go out with the guy that wanted to go out with me. She made him change his mind by telling him that I was a virgin and too innocent for him....

Why would someone be like this? What should I do?
 
planetweirdo

planetweirdo

Well-known member
She doesn't seem to be much of a good friend. have you confronted her about it, and asked her why she does that?
 
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nicole1

Well-known member
Not immature. Wrong is wrong. And when someone hurts you, you should be able to say so without them dismissing or belittling you. Your feeling is valid. She was wrong, tell her so. And also tell her that maybe your friendship should be reevaluated if she can not be loyal to you in a case such as this. In this instance, your friend would be the immature one for interfering in such a unproductive and deceptive way.
 
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