Welcome to the forum Aron.
It always helps to get another opinion on things that you are finding difficult to learn. This can be Councillors, family, friends, or even internet forums such as these ones.
Thanks.
That's the thing, I don't want anyone's help. To be honest, I already regretted that I registered here, because I know I won't take anyone's advice, I never did, and people don't like that. I don't want to be rude, I'm just stubborn as hell. I guess I was more interested in that if there's anybody else feeling like me.
Well, when you make a mistake you learn what NOT to do, whether you know it straightfowardly or you learn the situation subconciously.
So either way you're constantly learning and adapting.. and really, NO ONE can keep making them over and over and over again. Eventually, it'll be like your survival instinct to NOT repeat the same mistake you repeated one million times before. Practice makes perfect.. in this case, mistakes after mistakes do as well.
Also, there's a reason that luck's on your side, so take advantage of it!
Well it depends on the mistakes of course, I learned that leaving my shoes untied would cause me to tip over. So to be clear, I'm talking here about SA, and the behaviour that originates from it. If everybody learned from their mistakes, then sure people would grew out of SA in time. They would learn not to postpone things until you can't postpone it any more. They would learn not to take automatic negative thoughts seriously. I'm around 30, and yet I still didn't learn those. Moreover, it seems to me that I don't even want to learn. Funny you mention survival instinct, a person who knows me said that it's like I don't have one.
Sorry for so much negativity, it's just the way I am.
How is luck on my side? I don't follow, where that even came from?
