Moonie
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Yesterday I decided to go out to see this band with my sister and her friend. My sister's friend's BF was being so annoying and unintentionally rude that I actually was in tears! I suppose he was trying to be funny, but he just went so far. I never cried over things people have said, but it was just so much.
He first said hello Laurie the mute. Then he asked if I was practicing to be a mime. I HATE those two words: mime and mute. I was called them on occasion in middle school. It makes me feel so subhuman and dumb.
Later on he came out into the room and was talking to me. He just kept saying stuff like "It's ashame that you don't talk. Why don't you talk?
I also went to a different school for my first semester, but decided it wasn't for me. And he said something like, "You probably went home and told your mom that people talked to you and you didn't know what to do."
He also kept asking my sister things like, "Why didn't you try to help her? Why didn't you bring her out to places in public?" And stuff like that - as if I have been a recluse.
Finally he said to my sister and her friend, "I wish you guys didn't talk like Laurie." My sister replied back, "Then we wouldn't be fun people." She didn't mean it to come out like that, but I finally couldn't hold it in anymore and I cried.
I really can't stand how insensitive some people can be. I could have easily asked why he doesn't shutup and why he was so ignorant and annoying. But of course I couldn't say that because I was in tears, and I actually care about peoples' feelings and it would be so wrong. What do you do in these situations? They don't really occur anymore, so I guess I wasn't used to it. Should I stand up for myself now? Should I let it go as sheer ignorance? Has anyone bothered you so much that you cried - in the current situation? When this happened at school, I would sometimes cry later that night.
He first said hello Laurie the mute. Then he asked if I was practicing to be a mime. I HATE those two words: mime and mute. I was called them on occasion in middle school. It makes me feel so subhuman and dumb.
Later on he came out into the room and was talking to me. He just kept saying stuff like "It's ashame that you don't talk. Why don't you talk?
I also went to a different school for my first semester, but decided it wasn't for me. And he said something like, "You probably went home and told your mom that people talked to you and you didn't know what to do."
He also kept asking my sister things like, "Why didn't you try to help her? Why didn't you bring her out to places in public?" And stuff like that - as if I have been a recluse.
Finally he said to my sister and her friend, "I wish you guys didn't talk like Laurie." My sister replied back, "Then we wouldn't be fun people." She didn't mean it to come out like that, but I finally couldn't hold it in anymore and I cried.
I really can't stand how insensitive some people can be. I could have easily asked why he doesn't shutup and why he was so ignorant and annoying. But of course I couldn't say that because I was in tears, and I actually care about peoples' feelings and it would be so wrong. What do you do in these situations? They don't really occur anymore, so I guess I wasn't used to it. Should I stand up for myself now? Should I let it go as sheer ignorance? Has anyone bothered you so much that you cried - in the current situation? When this happened at school, I would sometimes cry later that night.