Does This sound like Any Form of Social Anxiety??

[scottishpacfan]

I have been On Anti Depressents for Ocd,Anxiety,Depression for years, im on 60 mg Of Ciatropram at the moment and i feel after reading, reading and reading about OCPD It to me is like describing.......Me.

Would this situation in my life describe anything to do with OCPD or social anxiety???

In a nutshell, I have an 18 yr old little cousin and to me she is like my little sister(Im an only child) and i have known well..since she was born really.


Last Dec, She would have been sitting in the house doing pretty much nothing,I got her out the house, asked her to the pub,Introduced her to my friends with thinking well if im not in the pub and she goes there she will have people to talk to, im not ashamed to admit this i deal with depression and anxiety,ocd and im on anti depressents and i drink. End of dec i suffered a HUGE paranoid/anxiety attack thinking she had fell out with me,she hadnt but was trying to get in contact to see what was"wrong" So through the year a few times i thought she had fell out with but it again was my paranoia and each time i saw her i aplogised to her for being like that and she would never reply to my txts,stop replying to me on a social networking site but everytime i saw her up town id be like"we cool?"etc& she said yes& if i was annoying she would tell me,again no reply to my txts,online msg's,she tells me things are ok but then goes and ignores me and and when she said she would add me to her friends list on a social networking site, she turns round and declines my request, to me i feel she been lying a lot to me and very 2faced ,Any Idea WHY she is being this way?? i know she has been lying to me and 2faced.

& if i was annoying she would tell me,again no reply to my txts,online msg's,she tells me things are ok but then goes and ignores me and and when she said she would add me to her friends list on a social networking site, she turns round and declines my request, to me i feel she been lying a lot to me and very 2faced ,Any Idea WHY she is being this way?? i know she has been lying to me and 2faced. Of Course iam Hurt and angry and In The Pub on Saturday I was standing at the jukeboxwith my friend, isaw her and her friend enter, i shot her a ****** off look, 5 mins later my friend and i go to our seats and drinks, within seconds she has drank her drink quickly, storms out the pub with her friend walking behind her....I mean i have said to severeal friends in the bar that look out for her if she gets into trouble and help her and they said they would as she is my cuz and would call me..Iam Hurt and confused why she is being like this.


All Thoughts Welcome.

 

[danstelter]

You sound a little obsessive/paranoid about the situation, which is understandable, but you don't sound socially anxious, and I don't think you are an obsessive compulsive person either, but that isn't really my realm of expertise.

If you had social anxiety, you would be wanting to talk to her, but too scared to make the attempt, or you wouldn't even know how. You would constantly tell yourself how bad and dumb you are for not knowing better. You would either not go out on town at night, or would only do so with great fear of what other people might think of you. You don't exhibit any fears of people or social situations, just a little paranoia and confusion.

You are understandably confused, and I am a little too. Women can be very two-faced like the one that you are talking about now, and they do so for varying reasons. One reason is because they like the drama of it all, and typically women who do that kind of stuff are no fun to be around at all. If I were you, I would begin to talk to someone else and make sure that she knows about it. This always peaks a woman's interest and will probably make her more attracted to you because women always like a challenge. Keep in contact with her, don't take what she does personally, and make sure to ignore the rude things she does and instead go after someone else.

Be sure to ask questions if you need further help.