Does this ever happen to you?

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Nervous

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That happens to me with girls. I'm usually nervous when I talk to them then they get nervous because they're probably wondering why I'm so nervous.
 

danstelter

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Try not to focus so much on how other people are acting around you and needing to have them act in certain ways. Know that you are cool and fun to be around, and eventually the other person will loosen up around you.

While nervousness can be contagious, so too can optimism and joy!
 

zofia-life-coach

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It happens sometimes and for me the best solutions is to accept the fact and just be quiet without acting out and forcing conversation to flow which usually makes it worse.
 

Havocan

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Depends on the sheer scale of it and how it kind of overpowers the entire atmosphere in our surroundings. If it's hardly noticeable I don't care much but may start to feel a bit sorry for the other, if it totally dominates the conversation or whatever we're doing I'm not getting afraid or nervous, just uncomfortable and somewhat embarrassed^^.
 
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