lonely_down_under
Well-known member
I'm 22, male, 6 ft tall.
I'm really a shy person but I noticed that people seem to relate shyness with immaturity. I often get this terminology.. even from people below my age... sweetie, be good boy, kid, babe etc.
Always, once I talk to someone, he/she gets to know me and within some minutes, these condescending words start to come out in every sentence.
What's frustrating is that there are plenty of whackjobs hanging out in this world who don't know shit about life, science, philosophy or politics, NONE... but they seem to be so confident and pretend they know it all. They're able to hold long conversations and stay in control of it. And such losers also easily degrade me and I cannot hit back.
One thing I'm not good at is responding back intellectually real-time.
I'm really a shy person but I noticed that people seem to relate shyness with immaturity. I often get this terminology.. even from people below my age... sweetie, be good boy, kid, babe etc.
Always, once I talk to someone, he/she gets to know me and within some minutes, these condescending words start to come out in every sentence.
What's frustrating is that there are plenty of whackjobs hanging out in this world who don't know shit about life, science, philosophy or politics, NONE... but they seem to be so confident and pretend they know it all. They're able to hold long conversations and stay in control of it. And such losers also easily degrade me and I cannot hit back.
One thing I'm not good at is responding back intellectually real-time.