Ok I have come to notice everytime I am with a friend or it can be my sister or even my mum they will ask me a quick question about how I am going or something about myself then they will start going on about themselves and there own problems its the same with friends I feel sometimes I cannot get a word in and when I do it's like they don't give a **** what kind of friends or ppl are they if they don't even give a **** about what you wana do or how ur feeling