MMGiru
Active member
I'm speaking here about romance. It's also quite plausible I'm speaking from a place of cowardice, but let's set that aside a moment. The question is, for someone like myself -- which, I'd imagine there're a few on here -- does anyone feel that engaging someone else in romance would be cruel to the other party?
Let's take me, for a moment. I'm a depressive, avoidant, reclusive deadbeat, essentially; never had a job, dropped out of high school, and I can't drive. Now, I tend to be pretty upfront about all that when meeting people that I'll be working with in some capacity; typically, for a 1x1 play-by-post. But if, for whatever reason, a person is either not made aware of these details, or is not appropriately dissuaded, is it then cruel to engage with them romantically?
Not that I'm likely to come across an opportunity, but I'd like to hear anyone else's opinion on this.
Let's take me, for a moment. I'm a depressive, avoidant, reclusive deadbeat, essentially; never had a job, dropped out of high school, and I can't drive. Now, I tend to be pretty upfront about all that when meeting people that I'll be working with in some capacity; typically, for a 1x1 play-by-post. But if, for whatever reason, a person is either not made aware of these details, or is not appropriately dissuaded, is it then cruel to engage with them romantically?
Not that I'm likely to come across an opportunity, but I'd like to hear anyone else's opinion on this.