Do you get embarrassed easily?

[JediKnight]

In some situations where I have to raise my voice (at work) I get embarrassed coz I worry too much what others might think of me. Wondering what other ways/situations ppl here get embarrassed.

 

[crescent]

Yeah, I think that's how SA works. We are too worried what others think. Sometimes when I talk on the phone,I unconsciously talk quite loud, but I didn't notice it when I talked on the phone, only when finished the conversation, I suddenly feel why the office is so quiet and I talk so loud, then I'm so embarassed

 

[tehStranger]

my problem is that I don't seem to get embarrassed, at all anymore.

I've turned into a little chatty jackass.

 

[Mysterioux]

God, i agree.
Even with people i can talk to fairly well, if i say something stupid or too loud, or something intended to be funny, and they don't laugh, i break down inside and stay quiet for up to several hours at a time. Even as i type this, i can feel a knot inside of my stomach twisting because of something terribly dumb i said to someone a little while ago.

 

[PhantomPod]

Yeah, I get embarrassed so easily, it's incredible. I blush a lot too. I hate it. Like I feel like I can barely talk to anyone without my face turning red. But I get embarrassed over nearly everything it seems, always worrying what others are thinking of me. It's definitely my flaw. I try not to care, but i can't help it.

 

[SongOfSongs]

my problem is that I don't seem to get embarrassed, at all anymore.

I've turned into a little chatty jackass.

How so?

 

[bigboy]

In some situations where I have to raise my voice (at work) I get embarrassed coz I worry too much what others might think of me. Wondering what other ways/situations ppl here get embarrassed.

i get so embarrasses i usually wish the ground would swallow me up

 

[riverbelow]

i get embarrassed really easily. it mostly comes from my family, like when something stupid or embarrasing happens to me they just won't let it go. and im like please just shut up! "oh yeah hey remember when that happened to micha, ha ha ha ha!" ya hilarious :roll:

 

[Alejandro]

In some situations where I have to raise my voice (at work) I get embarrassed coz I worry too much what others might think of me. Wondering what other ways/situations ppl here get embarrassed.

Yeah, dito. I prefer to go upto the person than shout across the room.

 

[betty]

oh my god yes, everyday unless i stay home

 

[lonley1]

^ same as boo there

 

[cloudy]

yeah pretty much most times i am out. since i feel like everyone's watching me, it is pretty embarassing, even though most likely no one is taking any notice of me. and like Mysterioux, when i say something which i think sounds stupid, or if i dont get the response from someone which i wanted, then i feel like just running away. it's awful.

 

[Jack-B]

JediKnight,

Great name!

What we usually say is forgotten within a nanosecond.

Hardly anyone understands us because no one has got any concentration, they're thinking about what's for dinner as you give them the answer to 'the meaning of life'.

Most people are racked with fear and anxiety or arent bothered that you are speaking. You cant see this because you cant read their minds. As you cant read their minds, you wont hear their thoughts that say, "wow, i wish i was as confident as him".

One day you will die and all this worry and embarrassement will be worth nothing.

There is no reason to be afraid of others thoughts, they are momentary and are full of the causes of suffering which could never make you happy.

There is no reason to be afraid of anxiety arising in your mind, accept it, fighting it and hiding it creates further anxiety.

Enjoy chattin to others, tell them how much you like them, be honest and smile.

Jack

 

[fazzer]

I get that all the time. In fact I tend to feel embarassed half way through saying something, and so I just kind of tail off or slur my words which is awful. No wonder people avoid me.

 

[IceLad]

I get embarassed very easily as well, and find myself going red often. Sometimes, I find myself taking the blame (when it isn't necessarily my fault), just out of panic and so I can get out of the situation.