Do we all have something attention-attracting in ourselves?

[Marvolo]

Hi,

It may seem as some paranoidal thought, but I think that we, as the social phobics, have in ourselves or in our appearance or something, something what attracts other people's attention. It is no good thing, I think.

Do you also think similarly, or maybe I'm just oversensitive? :?:

It happens at many situations out (but not always - I'm but no paranoid man), and it's really not pleasant... :?

I so dislike being a center of anybody's attention, but it seems that others pay this attention at me much too often.

I've made a poll to offer you a possibility to check how often this phenomenon happens to us.

Cheers!

 

[spct]

the fact is, social phobics are in the minority in the way they are/behave, so i guess they attract attention because of it due to this deviation from the so-called "norm"

which probably makes us more anxious & hence stand out even more

although i guess it depends on the situation

i'm sure our quiet nature helps us to blend into the background at times as well

also, i think by nature we're perhaps a little more sensitive than most people anyway

this is just my view

i voted for "Yes, sometimes it happens to me" btw

 

[qwerty77]

marwolo dont be bothering by it cause you are such glupi brzydki niski i gruby and prymitywny that noone is looking at you and noone pay much attention to you, i think you must have some sort of paranoja this is why you are thinking that you are the humb of the world.

 

[Marvolo]

marwolo dont be bothering by it cause you are such glupi brzydki niski i gruby and prymitywny that noone is looking at you and noone pay much attention to you, i think you must have some sort of paranoja this is why you are thinking that you are the humb of the world.

Really? I wouldn't say... It's You who is factually głupia, niska i gruba and prymitywna i in addition żenująco cyniczna that it's really amazing.
See you.

P.S. Aha - słowo "paranoja" po angielsku piszemy przez "i". Naucz się pisać, dziecino!