recluse
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I have been a member of a dating site for a few years and for the past few months o'r so i have been recieving regular requests/mails from a few women(don't know what they see in me).........Why is this a problem you ask?.........Well i have feelings for a ''friend'' in Poland whom i have visited a few times the most recent being New years eve 2008.
This friend in Poland has given me mixed signals and she got frustrated a while ago as to what my intentions were(my avoidant behaviour/love shyness to blame), the problem is that she, like most women in Poland are traditional...That it should be the man's job to do the initiation. I told her how i really felt when she demanded to know back in November. She suggested back in August when i was unemployed that she would come to the Uk to work and we get a place together but she said it was now too late as she had made other plans but that it's good to know for the future.
This has made me unsure of what she wants so i'm half heartedly messaging these women back (with a sick feeling in my stomach) on the dating site but i don't know why as i'd like a future with the Polish girl.
This friend in Poland has given me mixed signals and she got frustrated a while ago as to what my intentions were(my avoidant behaviour/love shyness to blame), the problem is that she, like most women in Poland are traditional...That it should be the man's job to do the initiation. I told her how i really felt when she demanded to know back in November. She suggested back in August when i was unemployed that she would come to the Uk to work and we get a place together but she said it was now too late as she had made other plans but that it's good to know for the future.
This has made me unsure of what she wants so i'm half heartedly messaging these women back (with a sick feeling in my stomach) on the dating site but i don't know why as i'd like a future with the Polish girl.
