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coriander1992

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hi

Hi, this part of your post just stuck out at me:

Most of the friends I have are people I have met in a passive situation, or people who have actively tried to get to know me. Rarely, if ever, have I tried to get to know someone, or try to take the next step for friendship, such as ask for a phone number, or asked to hang out...mainly because I'm afraid they won't want to.

I am exactly the same. I have never made friends by speaking to somebody myself. It has allways been a forward person who has tried to be friends with me. Thank god for them, otherwise I don't think I would have any friends ! Most lof the time I try to get away from these people, because I don't know how to make good conversation with them, and I am so worried that they will not like me.
 
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