girlinthecorner
Active member
I have a now ex-boyfriend who constantly tells me I have a problem and need to make friends. It annoys the crap out of me. And no matter how many times I tell him it annoys me he keeps doing it because he's "worried about me." The thing is I don't feel like I have a problem. I am usually fine with how I am. I'm just more antisocial. I don't usually have problems with talking to people, I just usually don't want to. He cant' understand that because he's the opposite. He's very shy and when we met he didn't have any friends but desperately wants them; complete opposite of me. He feels like I should be desperate too because he thinks having a lot of friends is what makes people normal and happy, but as I've told him over and over, I've had lots of friends before and it's not what makes me happy. I'd rather have one good friend than a bunch of fake ones, which is what he went out and did and it just makes me mad and sad.
He would also tell me I needed to use Facebook and go out to clubs and go to internet meetups just to talk to people. I'm not interested in any of those things. I tried facebook for him and it's just not for me but of course he can't understand that.
And what sucks is this the 3rd guy who has had a problem with how I am when it comes to being social. I can't meet anyone who just likes me how I am. And as I told my ex, it's weird that my family knows how I am and has never said anything about me having a problem. They'll just joke about it which is fine.
He would also tell me I needed to use Facebook and go out to clubs and go to internet meetups just to talk to people. I'm not interested in any of those things. I tried facebook for him and it's just not for me but of course he can't understand that.
And what sucks is this the 3rd guy who has had a problem with how I am when it comes to being social. I can't meet anyone who just likes me how I am. And as I told my ex, it's weird that my family knows how I am and has never said anything about me having a problem. They'll just joke about it which is fine.