Why cover up a nasty smell with perfume when you can just get rid of it all together?! I think it's silly to base your entire existence, pretty much, on one tiny little pill.
I've heard the herb passionflower works just as well as some drugs for anxiety. I've never tried it myself so you might want to do some research.
I've recently joined a yoga class for fun. But, it seems to be working for my SA. I don't talk to anyone there, but the quiet, peaceful environment allows me to drop my problems and focus on myself for awhile. I've learned a lot about myself through this. And am understanding that I can't change who I am, only improve myself. You could try that. Aside from yoga, I find that exersize in general helps. When I go out for a long walk I always come home feeling good about myself, and that's a lot of my problem right there. Not having enough confidence in myself! Go for a nice long walk or jog.