GIOLANDA
Well-known member
Have you been considered selfish by others,due to social avoidance? I'm just like that. I can't make friends,I avoid them,especially when they want to eat together,or have fun. At my church,we have a day every week where young ppl meet,I go there too. We discuss subjects from the Bible and I'm not anxious about that. But when sometimes they get ready to eat sth,I disappear. I leave so quietly,they don't even understand it and then they wonder,"where did she go"? Now they know that I leave,but they all think I'm selfish and don't want their company. This makes me feel sad,I'm not selfish,it's just SA,but they don't know this. Sometimes,I think it's better for them to think I'm selfish than know the truth,as they wouldn't understand.