lilmutegirl
Well-known member
I often feel that I am a link between two people...sometimes this is good, sometimes bad.
I find that I am friends with several people (who do not know each other) with similar interests. I like this, and enjoy that I could (hypothetically) introduce them, and they'd probably get along, given the common interests.
I also know people who either do not want to communicate with, or who do want to communicate with (or about) another person, which makes me feel awkward. Someone called me today, leaving a message asking for someone else's phone number. I have not called back, partially because I hate calling people, and also because I want to confirm that it is okay before giving out someone else's phone number. The person calling me posted on facebook asking if I got the voicemail, so I logged out of facebook for the evening, so she does not realize I am avoiding her...
I just hate being put in situations that make me uncomfortable...especially if I feel like I am betraying one person by complying with another's wishes.
I find that I am friends with several people (who do not know each other) with similar interests. I like this, and enjoy that I could (hypothetically) introduce them, and they'd probably get along, given the common interests.
I also know people who either do not want to communicate with, or who do want to communicate with (or about) another person, which makes me feel awkward. Someone called me today, leaving a message asking for someone else's phone number. I have not called back, partially because I hate calling people, and also because I want to confirm that it is okay before giving out someone else's phone number. The person calling me posted on facebook asking if I got the voicemail, so I logged out of facebook for the evening, so she does not realize I am avoiding her...
I just hate being put in situations that make me uncomfortable...especially if I feel like I am betraying one person by complying with another's wishes.