Strong_Silent_One
Member
I don't know if i'm doing this because of SP or either i've gone finally nuts, but the fact is i'm rejecting all my friends.
I used to go with a group of people out to dinner and to have fun... but gradually i more and more felt like they were being far too much patronizing with me. And i don't like being patronized. I'm almost 40 years old. So there you have it. I don't like at all being told about how life is by a girl or a guy who is only 23 years old, when i'm almost double his/her age.
I know they do it on good will, but still i can't stand it. So when people keeps over and over telling me what should i do like i was a kid, i stop going out with them and when they ask me to go i just invent some excuse cause i don't even want to waste my time explaining anything.
I have already lost contact with many people due to that. I feel very lonely now, but i refuse having any relationship if there's no respect and admiration on both parts.
I really would like to know if there's anyone there who feels related to this.
Thanks.
I used to go with a group of people out to dinner and to have fun... but gradually i more and more felt like they were being far too much patronizing with me. And i don't like being patronized. I'm almost 40 years old. So there you have it. I don't like at all being told about how life is by a girl or a guy who is only 23 years old, when i'm almost double his/her age.
I know they do it on good will, but still i can't stand it. So when people keeps over and over telling me what should i do like i was a kid, i stop going out with them and when they ask me to go i just invent some excuse cause i don't even want to waste my time explaining anything.
I have already lost contact with many people due to that. I feel very lonely now, but i refuse having any relationship if there's no respect and admiration on both parts.
I really would like to know if there's anyone there who feels related to this.
Thanks.