can't be "spontaneous"

cola junky

Active member
hey guys i have this problem i want to share with you:
like most ppl here i too have difficulty maintaining a conversation if it's face to face or over the phone and sometimes my head goes blank....
i feel as if i need to make myself a list of things to say in advanced or else i just wouldn't have anything to say and in that manner i just cant be spontaneous and talk without a list of conversation topics
my question is do you guys feel like this too or is it just me? do you have any good tricks for this problem?
 
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