Can you email, text, phone a girl you really like?
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weak
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The honest truth? It depends entirely on how high up the social ladder she is.
If I feel that I am "above her", then there's no problem. But if I feel she is out of my league, I'll get self conscious and insecure.
Unfortunately that's just how my anxiety works. Cant seem to help it.
If I feel that I am "above her", then there's no problem. But if I feel she is out of my league, I'll get self conscious and insecure.
Unfortunately that's just how my anxiety works. Cant seem to help it.
RanjinSingh
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What's with the revolting font sizes and colours?
They make me nervy.
They make me nervy.
TooShyShy
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Yes, i do talk to him about work related things and sometimes just to make small talk ask him how his weekend was, how he's doing, etc.
But lately i have not even done that bcuz it seems to make him very antsy and sometimes he still can't look at me for to long...he has to look away alot!!!
He has gotten better though. He will say hello everyday (he initiates that) and when i am around he likes to stay in the room or area i am in, but he keeps his distance and just stares..or positions himself so he can see where i am. I know he knows my schedule, routine, etc. so he's always there, i just don't approach anymore bcuz i always feel awkward around him now..i am shy to but lately he has made me feel as badly as he does.
I just wish he could get over this!!!! He won't go away either, sometimes its like being stalked...lol...but i guess on some level he is getting something out of it. I just wish he would relax around me the way he does all the other people in the building.
Uggggh! This is not fun. But i like him and i can't seem to stay away, especially since he won't and he's not going to go away anytime soon.
How do i get him to relax??? And why did he retrat when he got my email but yet rushed to get it to me AND a few days later went out of his way to say hello to me over and over again..i kept my dustance and didn't even look at him at all, he does this alot when i am ready to give up on him..i guess he knows i am getting tired!!!!
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But lately i have not even done that bcuz it seems to make him very antsy and sometimes he still can't look at me for to long...he has to look away alot!!!
He has gotten better though. He will say hello everyday (he initiates that) and when i am around he likes to stay in the room or area i am in, but he keeps his distance and just stares..or positions himself so he can see where i am. I know he knows my schedule, routine, etc. so he's always there, i just don't approach anymore bcuz i always feel awkward around him now..i am shy to but lately he has made me feel as badly as he does.
I just wish he could get over this!!!! He won't go away either, sometimes its like being stalked...lol...but i guess on some level he is getting something out of it. I just wish he would relax around me the way he does all the other people in the building.
Uggggh! This is not fun. But i like him and i can't seem to stay away, especially since he won't and he's not going to go away anytime soon.
How do i get him to relax??? And why did he retrat when he got my email but yet rushed to get it to me AND a few days later went out of his way to say hello to me over and over again..i kept my dustance and didn't even look at him at all, he does this alot when i am ready to give up on him..i guess he knows i am getting tired!!!!
M E N 8O
TheLoneWolf
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weak said:
im in this leaugue too. Crazily enough, Ive been on two dates this week, both of which didnt go great, but they werent that bad either. Ill go out with a girl, and i love texting and emailing, its just that bc of my ervousness in person,i can tell that sometimes girls feel uncomfortable, and that makes me uncomfortable