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Forget about peoples body language for a second.
Most people want to be seen as more confident than they really are, some want to be seen in a certain way, some want to project strength, some are hiding their insecurities. They are so aware of their bodies, that they do everything to appear the way they believe will make them happy, sadly, how often is this the case? What is self confident about this attitude?
Basically, you are just mistaken. Your eyes see perfectly, yet your mind tells you otherwise. Mistaken in respect that others do not see you as confident, maybe the most unconfident person in the world sees you as really confident?? Its a matter of how you see your self, your view of you. You must be so aware of how you look, how you come across, are you not tired of this yet? Of course you are, you must be.
People can sense if you are confident, you may outwardly look calm but your thoughts could be all over the place, unconfident. Its more to do with what you are thinking, the space you are in. Take your focus inward, forget about how things look, or how you look, concentrate on this feeling/thought of why you feel you need to come across or be seen as confident, when you let that feeling/thought go, you'll maybe find what you are looking for.
You dont need to look confident, you need to feel confident.
James