READ THIS!
READ THIS! A very helpful bullying Reply.
1_listen. People always say: ignore them, don't look at them, ...as thought it was very easy, but it's dififcult to apply it. (no offences, they try to help).
2_1 Bullied, why?= The bully thinks he or she knows their victim prety well, so they know for sure they won't react upon anything, so they get fun and more fun hurting and making others feel prety bad.
2_2 The bully has problems and chooses a target to realise that anger.
3_Most of the people who are bullied, are made fun of when doing a mistake, making up things they haven't done, changing the original words of what you have said, etc...
4_This message is for you: You have been bullied because you haven't been yourself and because you haven't been yourself the bully thinks that it's your full ''you, your essence'' and what really happens is that you don't want to break up the egg in order to come up to the light. Most of the people who are not themselves have low self-steem. Why low self-steem? Lack of love to yourself. Start to love yourself in order to attract more things you enjoy (do some tai chi, go to church or other method to feed up your armony) , from that you can be yourself; it is, not being afraid of saying any word, but being afraid of saying any joke, etc...And if you get really good at it, you'll be able to make fun of them.
5_ What really happens: What really happens is, People who are themselves, usually say nonsence things and make them look as thought they have lots of sence. Why does this happen? Because they're 100% sure of what they say, no matter if what they say is the most stupid thing in the world.
6_ Be yourself, love yourself infinitely (which may not be easy at first) and that my friend, is my solution.
7_My experience: I was bullied by the teacher when i was in Kinder Garden. I suffered and I wouldn't advertice this because I was unsecure and shy. from 1th to 4th I was bullied, until I transfered to another school in 5th. They were nice, so I wasn't bullied. This nice enviorement lasted till 4th grade in highschool, where I had to go to the Super Bully school.
People who lived there, were mostly ghettos. in my class there were stealers, rappers, gansters,....everything you can think of.
7_1 what did I do?: all was nice at first. I made first friends the first day of class. They were junior guys, but we would have cool times. Then I mixed with the other guys of my class. After a couple of months, they bully began. I still made friends from class. some shifty, but I had some friends I could go along with, and talk with. I suffered a lot, a lot, a lot. every day would be a sacrifice.
Over: It was over until i left school lol, what a relief, but hey. I thought about it a lot and I that's the soluction i can give you (the one described in 4-6)
9_Send e-mails to:
[email protected], and tell me the process to I can give you tips from the heart. See you!!
