born with all the wrong genes

[steel_sparks]

i've been thinkin lately about where my SA comes from and i've come to the conclusion i have the worst genes possible i'm short, i have crap hair, i have haemophilia, two years ago i started working out and found out i'm what is termed a hard gainer which means i have to work harder and longer to get the same muscle growth, the plus side of being short means it counteracts this by making me appear to be wider so to speak than i am. but still, lately my height has been becoming a major issue for me i'm 5 ft 1 and i dont know anyone apart from my mother who is shorter than me over the age of ten, i think this is putting a lot of women off me being more than a friend, after all who wants a boyfriend shorter than them. i know there are a few who wouldnt mind but the majority would, anywho thats enough ranting for one day. Graham

 

[Alaina]

Hi, yes I've also often thought I was born with all these crap features about me. I do have quite a few negative points, BUT occasionally I remember that there are some good points about me, and I'm SURE there are many good things about you.

As for shortness, well I for one really like shorter guys!! I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there who do too, sometimes we don't realise just how diverse people and their opinions are in this world.

I know it's a totally obvious and easier-said-than-done thing to say, but just try and remember your good points, even if you can't forget the more negative things. You just never know what other people will find attractive.

 

[appletree]

heya graham, as far as genes go i know exactly what you mean, i have hyperhidrosis which means i sweat loads, especially on my hands. so yehh..
blergh.

 

[SocialRetahd]

If you are under 20, than you are probably still growing. If you are under 18 than you can get growth hormones to make you grow. My rich cousin did it. Growth hormones might work if you are older.

I'm not short, but I also have crap genes. I am balding and I lost my looks. Plus I'm stupid with no social skills just to name some things.

 

[steel_sparks]

hi i have considered using growth hormones but i never really looked into it propperly and i'm 21 now so i have probably stopped growing naturally.

 

[LittleSmedley]

i've been thinkin lately about where my SA comes from and i've come to the conclusion i have the worst genes possible i'm short, i have crap hair, i have haemophilia, two years ago i started working out and found out i'm what is termed a hard gainer which means i have to work harder and longer to get the same muscle growth, the plus side of being short means it counteracts this by making me appear to be wider so to speak than i am. but still, lately my height has been becoming a major issue for me i'm 5 ft 1 and i dont know anyone apart from my mother who is shorter than me over the age of ten, i think this is putting a lot of women off me being more than a friend, after all who wants a boyfriend shorter than them. i know there are a few who wouldnt mind but the majority would, anywho thats enough ranting for one day. Graham

Graham, u need a 5 ft girlfriend :wink:

Seriously, what's ur best feature? (either physical or mental). Shyness or SA can draw people to u, as well as away. There are benefits of having this astonishing condition