Blushing is sexy-- stop worrying about this

[stevebellecosi]

I've read some of these posts about how embarrassed you blushers get during important situations-- at work, social sit.s, speeches etc.

But the female among you should keep in mind that it's also really hot. Yes, we guys will tease you about but that doesn't mean we don't want you even more for how cute you are.

If you are a young woman 15-30, do not get surgery or try to cover it up. There are enough stonefaced girls out there already and though the "ice queen" look gets models on magazine covers (and I don't know why) we guys are just looking for girls who can display actual feelings.

I'm adding a poll for ONLY GUYS WHO ARE NOT BLUSHERS.

 

[crazyfairyx]

I don't think telling girls who blush that they shouldn't worry about it is really going to help matters to be honest, but I'm sure you're just trying to help.

 

[shipost]

what if your a blushing guy

 

[crazyfairyx]

what if your a blushing guy

((Shipost)) I don't think there's anything wrong with guys or girls who blush, but it's how you perceive yourself that counts, it's like telling someone with bdd that they're not unattractive and to stop worrying about it, it's not gonna make their problem vanish. xx

 

[Meow]

Well i'm sure it'a cute when you blush infront of a guy you like and he goes "awww" but blushing in a supermarket line isn't exactly hot or sexy. We're not talking about just blushing when you're flirting or something.

 

[Linds]

I'm with meow its cute when someone's talking to their crush and blush like that. But what we're mostly talking about is the completely red face (and in my unfortunate case, flushing too) that we've had for a long time and got teased about all throughout our lives so we don't see as this cute little thing we see a huge embarassing problem.

 

[maggie]

..what i don't like about it is..if i'm blushing simply cause i'm having a bad time with my anxiety....and some guy i'm serving coffee to thinks it's some kind of cute....sign...or whatever.... that i'm flattered that he's flirting with me...or that i think he's hot or something....that's really annoying :evil:

 

[corsa]

I don't think my bosses find my blushing cute when we are in a business meeting. Cuteness has nothing to do with professionalism and competence. Trust me, stevebellecosi, if you were sitting across the table from me when my neck and face is spotchy red, you wouldn't find anything attractive about it, rather you would be asking what the hell is her problem? It doesn't look good at all.

 

[black_mamba]

I've read some of these posts about how embarrassed you blushers get during important situations-- at work, social sit.s, speeches etc.

I think you've misunderstood the problem. I also think you've probably never met a person who blushes uncontrollably.

 

[mle]

ok lets not b too mean
he just made a mistake
thanks for saying its sexy but this isnt rele blushing as you prob know it
this is full on redness and then sometimes braking out into a huge sweat
is it rele sexy when you're talking to your parents in your home or completely normal situations and you go bright red?
it make the blusher embarassed which only makes things worse and it makes everyone else rele embarassed. i see people trying to look away when they talk to me and i go bright red

 

[Remus]

I do find it endearing I must admit

I blush from time to time but not excessively, mind you have hay fever this time of year and my head is beetroot red anywho

 

[reerikavenger]

It's not really the redness that's the problem. The problem is the association your mind makes with the feeling of getting red. The mind is linked, indellibly, to associations we've grown accustom to. As soon as we begin to flush, we feel the heat and it triggers a reactionary emotion that is impossible to just reverse by a quick change in thinking. It takes a comination of clinical help and trial and error. For the clinical help, seek out alternate medicines, herbs, even things that are placebos or have no direct correlation to blushing. If you think they are going to work, it can help. For trial and error, find something you are really good at and revel in it, so much so that it borders on cockiness. But who cares if people perceive you as cocky? Your first priority is to love yourself so that you can love other people as well as you want to.

 

[lia]

..what i don't like about it is..if i'm blushing simply cause i'm having a bad time with my anxiety....and some guy i'm serving coffee to thinks it's some kind of cute....sign...or whatever.... that i'm flattered that he's flirting with me...or that i think he's hot or something....that's really annoying :evil:

I couldn't agree more

 

[yay]

I don't find anything wrong with a guy blushing
I think it's cuteee! Same goes for girls
blushing as in ( tomatoe red )
haha

 

[jennn]

yeah i don't think blushing is that bad. it's kind of sweet for guys and girls. i blush a lot & it's noticeable because i have really light skin. but i think it's kind of interesting how your emotions can show like that and you know you're not faking it.

 

[mr.d]

it is sexy when you are around family and friends. when it comes to business affairs it is accessive.but i think blushing accessively is a sign of insecurity.i think you should take assertiveness classes.