lilmutegirl
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This weekend, we went to two family events (my ex-husband's family--he hasn't spoken to them in years, so my son, my boyfriend, and I were invited). The first was a pool party. I did not swim (at one point, I was the only person present who was not wearing a swimsuit). My ex's stepdad kept asking why I wasn't swimming and why I was wearing jeans (I am physically and emotionally uncomfortable in shorts). I mostly spent my time sitting around listening to other people's conversations and watching them swim.
The second one was a fancy dinner. My son was gushed over (as usual--he does not appear to have any problem socializing). During dinner was okay (we were all at one table), but afterward, people split off, and, again, I basically eavesdropped (mostly my boyfriend and ex's grandma).
On the upside, everyone loves my boyfriend and son, and were it not for me, these people would not know them. I do not have their abundant personalities, and it became glaringly obvious over the past couple of days...
The second one was a fancy dinner. My son was gushed over (as usual--he does not appear to have any problem socializing). During dinner was okay (we were all at one table), but afterward, people split off, and, again, I basically eavesdropped (mostly my boyfriend and ex's grandma).
On the upside, everyone loves my boyfriend and son, and were it not for me, these people would not know them. I do not have their abundant personalities, and it became glaringly obvious over the past couple of days...