Meaning_of_meaningless
Member
Hi, I have written a short piece regarding social phobia,
It is said that if all of us (or most of the society) were well-behaved, peace will come into the society. Everyone will respect each other and harmony will exist.
I think it is alright for me to say that most of the people here on the forum are well-behaved. There is a tendency to believe we are the ones who are anti-social and do not fit into society. This is complete untrue.
"Anti-social behaviour is that lacking in judgement and consideration for others, ranging from careless negligence to deliberately damaging activity, vandalism and graffiti for example."
Think for a moment, have your neighbours ever complained about your behaviour? No, it is you who choose to complain about yourself.
Social phobes are not anti-social citizens, on the contrary, we are very loving people with big hearts.
The cause of our social anxiety is partly due to a perfectionistic emphasis on being well-behaved all the time. We are afraid of seeing less than excellent behaviour from others due to our unrealistic expectations.
Therefore, in order to overcome this attitude of discrimination, it is important to replace the false belief mentioned in the opening paragraph. We have to believe that noone can be well-behaved at all times, it would be extremely oppressive to force a person to keep up a good behaviour.
I welcome any comments.
It is said that if all of us (or most of the society) were well-behaved, peace will come into the society. Everyone will respect each other and harmony will exist.
I think it is alright for me to say that most of the people here on the forum are well-behaved. There is a tendency to believe we are the ones who are anti-social and do not fit into society. This is complete untrue.
"Anti-social behaviour is that lacking in judgement and consideration for others, ranging from careless negligence to deliberately damaging activity, vandalism and graffiti for example."
Think for a moment, have your neighbours ever complained about your behaviour? No, it is you who choose to complain about yourself.
Social phobes are not anti-social citizens, on the contrary, we are very loving people with big hearts.
The cause of our social anxiety is partly due to a perfectionistic emphasis on being well-behaved all the time. We are afraid of seeing less than excellent behaviour from others due to our unrealistic expectations.
Therefore, in order to overcome this attitude of discrimination, it is important to replace the false belief mentioned in the opening paragraph. We have to believe that noone can be well-behaved at all times, it would be extremely oppressive to force a person to keep up a good behaviour.
I welcome any comments.